Misfits Like Me

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Misfits Like Me Inclusive, Empowering St. Louis Photographer for the rest of us Professional misfit. Former paramedic, forever photographer. LGBTQIA+ friendly. Kink positive.

I've spent 20+ years capturing love stories, but my real passion? Celebrating the beautifully unconventional souls who've never quite fit the mold. At mIsFiTs Like ME, I create empowering, intimate photography for free spirits, rebels, and anyone who's ever felt like an outsider. Because the world doesn't need more "perfect"—it needs more you. S*x worker safe space. All bodies, all identities, all stories welcome. Let's make art that makes you feel like the badass you are. 📸✨

Are you worried your bo***ir session only counts if you leave fearless?You don’t owe the camera a confidence makeover. I...
10/24/2026

Are you worried your bo***ir session only counts if you leave fearless?

You don’t owe the camera a confidence makeover. I make room for what’s true that day, even if it feels quieter than you expected. Start with a free, no-obligation consult. What would feeling at home in your skin look like for you?

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If fitting in proves you’re fine, show me the evidence.Maybe it’s the laugh you were told to tone down, the style with n...
10/22/2026

If fitting in proves you’re fine, show me the evidence.

Maybe it’s the laugh you were told to tone down, the style with no instruction manual, or the part of your story you stopped translating for strangers. I won’t ask you to make any of it camera-friendly. I’ll make room for you as you are. Start with a free, no-obligation consult. What part of you are you done editing?

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What Is Glamour Photography, Really? An Honest BreakdownYou’ve been told glamour photography is about hiding — smoothing...
10/21/2026

What Is Glamour Photography, Really? An Honest Breakdown
You’ve been told glamour photography is about hiding — smoothing the parts of you that didn’t get the memo, lighting built to erase instead of reveal. That’s a lie someone sold you to keep you buying concealer and self-loathing in bulk, usually from the same catalog. Real glamour work is the opposite. It’s Sacred Authenticity...

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You've been told glamour photography is about hiding — smoothing the parts of you that didn't get the memo, lighting built to erase instead of reveal. That's

Stop saving your honest reaction for the drive home.When you see a frame mid-session, you can tell me what feels like yo...
10/20/2026

Stop saving your honest reaction for the drive home.

When you see a frame mid-session, you can tell me what feels like you, and what doesn’t. I can honor that boundary right then. The shift isn’t suddenly loving every photo; it’s realizing you get a say in how you’re seen. Start with a free, no-obligation consult. What helps you feel seen without performing?

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mIsFiTs Like ME - Empowering photography for the rest of us. https://www.misfitslikeme.com ***irPhotographer

The cheapest quote can hide the priciest surprise.Before you commit, I want you to know what your investment includes: t...
10/17/2026

The cheapest quote can hide the priciest surprise.

Before you commit, I want you to know what your investment includes: the session experience, artistry and retouching, your private reveal, payment timeline, and whether you’re taking home digitals, physical artwork, or both.

Otherwise, you may be budgeting for a gallery when you really want the finished piece.

Start with a free, no-obligation consult. What would you want clearly explained before booking?

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The longer you wait, the better hiding feels.You start choosing clothes, poses, and versions of yourself that keep every...
10/15/2026

The longer you wait, the better hiding feels.

You start choosing clothes, poses, and versions of yourself that keep everyone comfortable except you. I won’t ask you to become camera-ready. I’ll honor your no’s, follow your yeses, and give the shift room to arrive.

Maybe the real cost of waiting is seeing your reflection as evidence against you.

Start with a free, no-obligation consult. What have you been waiting to feel ready for?

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mIsFiTs Like ME - Empowering photography for the rest of us. https://www.misfitslikeme.com ***irPhotographer

How I keep a misfit session from becoming another audition:I watch for the tiny edits, held breath, shoulders volunteeri...
10/13/2026

How I keep a misfit session from becoming another audition:

I watch for the tiny edits, held breath, shoulders volunteering for a pose, a hand gripping fabric. Those cues are useful direction, not something to push past.

I pause. Name the choice without judgment. Then you can sit, move, cover up, change the light, or stop. Consent is part of the process, not paperwork at the edges.

Start with a free, no-obligation consult.

What helps you feel safe being seen?

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mIsFiTs Like ME - Empowering photography for the rest of us. https://www.misfitslikeme.com ***irPhotographer

Explicit Couples Bo***ir Photography: Real Intimacy, Fully WitnessedYou’ve been told that what happens between you and y...
10/10/2026

Explicit Couples Bo***ir Photography: Real Intimacy, Fully Witnessed
You’ve been told that what happens between you and your partner in private stops being real the second anyone else sees it — that desire needs darkness, that lust caught in light turns into a show instead of staying what it is. That’s a lie someone sold you, and you bought it because everyone around...

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Explicit couples bo***ir photography in St. Louis: private, consent-driven sessions that document real intimacy, not performance. See how it works.

How I help you stop auditioning for the camera:I ask what version of you has been edited, softened, or hidden to keep ot...
10/10/2026

How I help you stop auditioning for the camera:

I ask what version of you has been edited, softened, or hidden to keep other people comfortable.

Then I build the session around your answer, with clear consent, no pressure, and zero requirement to become more palatable.

That’s sacred authenticity: being fully seen without performing yourself into acceptability.

Start with a free, no-obligation consult. What part of you are you done hiding?

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mIsFiTs Like ME - Empowering photography for the rest of us. https://www.misfitslikeme.com ***irPhotographer

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