06/11/2026
Happy 38th Anniversary to the love of my life! (43 years if you count our dating years!) From high school sweethearts to grandparents of 6 precious grandkids and everything in between!
Kristi, I am so thankful...
Thankful for the incredible example you are of Godly love that is based on a decision and not your feelings...love that has looked for the best in me all these years…love that is unconditional...love that has seen past the immaturity…love that has molded and shaped me into a better person. Love that has sifted through the stress of ministry, coaching and running a video business. But most importantly, love that chose to stay with me through thick and thin, through heartache and pain and through swamps and mountain tops.
Awe...
I don't know of a better word to describe how I feel about you. I have stood in awe as I have watched you raise our three boys. My mouth drops open as I have watched you go through your life as a mother: the energy that was exerted, the compassion and firmness in discipline, the daily and nightly grind you went through pouring your heart and soul into those three gifts from God. I get an amazing feeling inside when I hear someone talk about our boys in a positive manner, and I know they are special because of what you have invested in them. Our children are who they are because of the sacrifices you have made and the hours you have invested in their lives, especially through homeschooling.
And now I get to watch you be a grandmother. The way you read to them, the way you pick out special gifts for them, the way you make up songs for each of them. The way they look out the window and then run to the door of their house to hug you when you visit them. You have always gone out of your way to invest in your kids and your grandkids and they love you for that.
Thank you for being my partner in ministry. It is my guess that others have no clue the amount of time, tears and effort that YOU have put into those dearly loved teens that God has entrusted to us. The love that you give them. The wisdom that you impart. The many sleepless nights spent praying for them and their families. The many times you have had to make a stand to protect a teen, even though you paid a price for it. The way that you have opened up our home to the many kids who know you aren’t their mother, but they still affectionately call you “Mom”.
Thank you for choosing to be a CASA volunteer and the endless hours you were the eyes and ears of the judge for those kids in the foster care system. Thank you for loving those young people as if they were your own.
Thank you for convincing me to join you in our foster care journey. One of the hardest things we have ever done but also one of the most important things.
If there was one word to describe your life it would be selfless. You have shown that in so many areas of your life, but none more than in our marriage.
I owe so much to you, Kristi, and I love the life we have made with each other.
I don’t know how you have balanced all that you have done in your life. Wife, Mom, grandmother, Homeschool Teacher, Kidz Camp Director, CASA Volunteer, Foster Mom, published writer, Elderly Home Care Specialist and Youth Leader… You do it all. But most of all, you balance me… I am looking forward to the next 50 years!
Other than repenting of my sins and acknowledging that Jesus is the King of the Universe and King of my life, marrying you was the best decision I’ve ever made.
"Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” -- Proverbs 31:28,29
P.S. You still give me tingles every time you kiss me!