05/07/2024
Yesterday was bereaved Mother’s Day. A day that feels that it shouldn’t even exist, because it signifies families who have had to say goodbye to their child far too soon. It’s a day a lot of people don’t know how to acknowledge, because let’s be real, death sucks and it’s uncomfortable. As a bereavement doula, I have seen and witnessed firsthand the strength, and resilience from that of mothers who have to love their baby from afar, the mothers who carry their babies in their hearts, rather than their arms. Bereaved mothers carry a pain that is unfathomable, a loss that cuts deep into the core of their being. Each day is a delicate dance between honoring the memory of their precious child and navigating the overwhelming waves of grief. Their love knows no bounds, and holds strong until the day they are reunited with their little one again. To all the bereaved mothers out there, your strength is awe-inspiring, your resilience is remarkable. May you find moments of solace in the memories you hold dear, and may you feel the gentle embrace of love surrounding you always. You are not alone, and your little one is celebrated and remembered, forever.
And to my fellow birth workers who offer bereavement services, I want to acknowledge you as well. We walk a thin line, supporting families in the depths of their darkest moments in life, offering a glimmer of light, encouragement of hope, a heart full of compassion and support, doing our best to help each grieving family preserve the short, but precious memories and moments they have with their baby. I’ve been asked often, WHY do you offer bereavement services? My answer is simple, but heavy. My heart and goal is to hold space for each family in the depths of trying to navigate grief, and healing, learning how to live with joy and pain, acknowledging that both have to, and will co-exist. My heart behind the photos is that it would show the beauty and significance of their child…continued in comments