08/28/2026
Sorry everyone, this one is kind of a rush job, but you'll understand why in just a minute.
Our dear friend Vicki has been part of our family for as long as I can remember. I honestly consider her my aunt. When my dad and Uncle Doyle were little, the three of them were the very best of friends. Vicki and Dale were especially close with my dad going on lots of motorcycle trips together and hanging out. They all grew up together in Ada, and every year they celebrated their birthdays together. She has always held such a special place in my heart, and so do her daughters, Stacy and Steffani. We even grew up playing together as kids.
This past weekend, my sister and I headed up to the cabin to get some things done that needed to get done, and celebrate my dad's birthday. His birthday is on the 25th, and Vicki's is on the 21st. While we were there, we drove over to Ada on Saturday and found out Vicki was having a birthday party. We were able to stay and spend some time visiting with everyone, which was wonderful.
The reason this session became such a rush is because Vicki has been dealing with some serious health concerns. She had gone to a hospital in Fargo after not feeling well, and after scans she was initially told it appeared to be pancreatic cancer. None of us knew how serious things were, but I knew I wanted to get these photos edited as quickly as possible so she could enjoy them and at the time that's all we knew.
Steffani had contacted me before I came up and asked if I could photograph their family while everyone was together. Of course I said yes.
On Sunday, I drove from the cabin to Ada, and the whole family was there. Vicki wasn't feeling well at all, but you would never know it by looking at these photos. She smiled, laughed, and watched with so much joy as we photographed each family. I even had the pleasure of meeting her son and his beautiful family for the first time. They were absolutely wonderful too.
Although she was in a great deal of pain, she pushed through every minute because her family means absolutely everything to her. That's just who Vicki is she has the biggest heart I know.
When we finished, I gave her the biggest hug and a kiss goodbye.
On my way back, I stopped at my dad's cemetery. I stood there talking to him for a while, asking him to have a conversation with God about Vicki and to watch over her. Before I left, I gave his headstone one last kiss and headed back to the cabin.
Yesterday, Stacy shared an update that after what felt like 30 excruciating days of waiting, Mayo returned a preliminary diagnosis that the cancer appears to be in Vicki's liver rather than her pancreas. On Monday, August 31st, she'll be meeting with an oncologist at Roger Maris Cancer Center in Fargo, along with the palliative care team to help get her pain under control. While this news may offer more hope that it could be treatable, there are still so many unknowns, and they're waiting for more answers.
If I could ask one thing of everyone reading this, it would be to please say a very special prayer for Vicki. Pray for healing, for strength, for comfort, for wisdom for her doctors, and for peace for her entire family as they walk this road together. We are all holding onto hope and praying with everything we have.
Steffani, Stacy, and your entire family... thank you for trusting me to capture these memories during such a difficult season. It means more to me than I could ever put into words. I hope you know I'll always be here for all of you.
Please keep this incredible woman in your prayers. We LOVE YOU SWEET LADY β€οΈ