03/25/2021
PSA for your Thursday: Wedding trends may come and go, but it’s moments like these that are incredibly timeless.
I can’t speak enough to the fact that your expression of pre-wedding anticipation, or your Dad’s teary eyes, or your fiancé’s goofy grin are going to be images that you cherish far and wide over the decor details that you labored over. I agree that those details are SO much fun and special and unique, but when you look through your photos with your grandchildren, images of your centerpieces won’t be the ones that they hang on to. (They may get a good laugh at your bridesmaids dresses 😉... but ultimately that’s not what they will cherish.)
I find that I must reorient my mind to focus on what is LASTING and what is IMPORTANT when documenting weddings these days. Its easy to get sucked into “beautiful wedding detail land” instead of focusing on what is happening around us.
Rather than leading with the mindset of- “I will document what looks the most aesthetically pleasing,” I must be led by: “what memories at this moment need to be bottled up?”
If you’re feeling the pressures of planning the perfect “look” for your wedding, I encourage you to remind yourself that all of that peripheral beauty will fade. Your wedding will be beautiful because of what the day represents, and your photos will be beautiful because you and those you love are in them. 🤍
If you’re planning a wedding, find yourself a photographer (whether myself or someone else) who values capturing the meaningful moments of your day more than the aesthetics of your day. It’s those images that will be timeless!
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