11/05/2025
Perfectly worded! Self doubt has always been my enemy!
Time for my yearly, super vulnerable, post about Miss Marci. As many of you know, I struggle. I have good days and bad days. Sometimes it's my health, sometimes it's family hardships and sometimes my perimenopausal brain just hates me(as it does today). This is 'busy season' when for about 10 weeks, I pack in as many family and christmas mini sessions as I can while the weather is beautiful. That way you can all have yearly family and christmas pictures for your Christmas cards or can send out prints of your favorite family picture to grandparents and such.
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Every image of every session is picked by me, edited by me and loved by me! So I must ask you all a favor. I need your feedback, your "oooos and ahhhs", your heartfelt thoughts about your pictures. I want to keep doing what I'm doing, but year after year, I hit a slump after sending out 50+galleries and only hearing from a handful of you how much you appreciate this work I put so much love into. Sometimes all I get is: "we picked our favorites." and nothing else.
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So here is my perspective and I would love to hear yours: "Maybe they only liked 10 out of the 50 pictures? Maybe I didn't capture their real smile? Do they not like my editing style anymore? Was my location too tricky this year? Was I not enough fun during the session?" And on and on, because that is how my brain works. Please don't judge, I know it's all in my head.
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I know I'm not the only photographer going through this right now, so please take a moment and send love to your photographer. Tell them how much your kids talked about their fun pictures, buy 1 or 2 extra images ($20 feels like the biggest compliments to me) or how your parents melted when they saw your pictures, or tag their business page so we can read all the comments from your loved ones! This is the best dopamine hit we could ever ask for! Maybe write up a review on Google. That would be dope! š¤£
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You are the reason I love this work so much! I love watching your kids grow, and seeing their silly smiles and personalities emerge through the years! I wish I could bottle it up! I love freezing time with my camera. Hold those kids a little longer tonight for me!
With love,
Miss Marci
Here's a comparison from 2013 to 2025 just for funsies.