09/21/2026
“I want to be more confident in front of the camera, how do you do it?” a woman on a retreat asked me after finding out I am a bo***ir and self-love photographer.
The short answer? For me, learning to BE in my body first and love being IN my body, away from the camera.
If you’re avoiding the mirror: eye gazing, naked affirmations (hellll yeah) and neutral self-witnessing are a good place to start.
If you don’t even know how to pause to feel your breath and the oxygen reaching your fingertips, that’s another.
If you’re scared of touching your own skin because of some insane engrained indoctrination in purity culture, I’ll lovingly shake the shame out of you — START HERE!!
Confidence in front of the camera has nothing to do with the photos themselves. It has everything to do with your relationship with YOU.
Not sure how to actually apply this? I have a self-portrait guide called the Sultry Selfie Blueprint (no need for a professional camera, I walk you through all that you need to start looking and feeling more badass in front of your phone’s camera).
The SSB is getting a massive upgrade in the next month (and with that, a price increase). If you’d like to get it now and receive all of the coming updates at its’ current price of $44, the link is in my bio, or comment “🔥🔥🔥” to get the link straight to your inbox.
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