06/10/2026
HOW TO GET YOUR MARRIAGE LICENSE!
We know, not the most exciting topic, BUT something that a lot of eloping couples get confused about.
So, let us try and shed some light...
🏛️ Typically you need to acquire your marriage license IN the state you are planning to get married in. Eg. You wanna elope in Colorado? Then you need to get a Colorado marriage license. You CANNOT get one in your home state and bring it with you, it will be invalid. There IS the odd exception to this: Texas, for example, allows you to use its license out of state but this is very rare.
🏛️ Which COUNTY you get it in is not important: a marriage license for one county is valid across the entire state. So, based on your travel plans you might have a few options on where to pick it up.
🏛️ You can expect to pay a small fee, usually in the $30-50 range.
🏛️ Marriage licenses are valid for a certain number of days and this varies from state to state. Make sure it’s not going to expire if you apply too soon!
🏛️ On the flip side, some actually have a waiting period! Ie. It’s not valid the moment you get it, you might have to get it then wait a few days before you can get married.
🏛️ You will get your marriage license at the county clerk’s office: you might need an appointment, or they might do walk-ins.
🏛️ Some states require an officiant and two witnesses, some just one witness, some no one at all!
🏛️ Colorado is one of the easiest states since you can ‘self-solemnize’ (don’t need officiant or witnesses) AND the license is valid immediately. Even better, in many counties your dog can ‘sign’ your license!
🏛️ Utah is also super easy as the whole thing can be done DIGITALLY, you don’t need to go in person: meaning you can apply before you even leave your own home and don’t need to factor it into travel plans.
🏛️ Once you have held your ceremony, you can return your completed marriage LICENSE either in person or via mail. Your final marriage CERTIFICATE will then be issued to you and the whole thing is official!
If you’ve got general questions about your marriage license, drop them below....