10/03/2026
Something magical happened last night. I’ll never forget it.
I’ve had this talk about light brewing in me for years. I’ve given versions of it as a TEDx Talk, and TED even featured my 2024 version on their YouTube channel.
But it never felt fully finished.
It’s felt like a sculpture I’ve been slowly chipping away at for years. And last night, I think I finally got to see the finished work.
At the end, I do an experiment with the audience.
First, everyone turns on their phone flashlight and points it at themselves. I take a photo.
Then I ask them to turn that exact same light toward each other.
I take another photo.
The difference honestly blew me away.
In the first image, everyone is illuminated, but the light is harsh. Everyone looks isolated. You can barely see the people around you because you’re literally being blinded by your own light.
And everyone around you is left in the dark.
Then we made the second photograph.
Same people.
Same room.
Same phones.
Same light.
The only thing that changed was where they pointed it.
And look what happened.
Everyone looks like angels.
All those tiny harsh lights suddenly became this beautiful soft light because everyone was spreading it everywhere.
And look at the smiles. Pure joy.
But my favorite part?
Everyone is blurry.
When we’re busy lighting each other, no one gets to be the focus.
It’s not about me anymore.
It’s about us.
Me vs. us.
Isolation vs. community.
Selfish vs. selfless.
Success vs. significance.
Attention vs. impact.
Being seen vs. seeing others.
And lighting each other isn’t complicated.
It’s every email you send. Every comment you leave. How you wake up your kids. Forgiving someone who never asked. Noticing someone who feels invisible.
I think we can all agree the world has gotten darker.
But maybe it didn’t get darker because the dark got stronger.
Maybe it got darker because we stopped pointing our light at each other.
Last night, a room full of people proved how quickly that can change.
Same light.
Just pointed in a different direction.
Keep shining. ❤️
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Me vs. us.
Isolation vs. community.
Selfish vs. selfless.
Succe