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The Duffys because I’m still trying to get a Ford Motor Company sponsorship 😂🍂🍁
10/18/2026

The Duffys because I’m still trying to get a Ford Motor Company sponsorship 😂🍂🍁

Some stories come full circle.Kelly has been a friend for most of my life, then she became my OB/GYN. She brought both o...
10/13/2026

Some stories come full circle.

Kelly has been a friend for most of my life, then she became my OB/GYN. She brought both of my babies into this world, showing up for me even while navigating her own pivotal moments. Now, I get to be the one capturing her and the people she loves most. 🥹

Her babies aren’t really babies anymore. They’re preteens and teens, at that age where taking family photos might not exactly be their favorite things to do. 😂 And after 20 years together, she and her husband aren’t necessarily the PDA type. But sometimes love doesn’t need grand gestures or picture-perfect poses. Sometimes it’s in the quiet glances, the little chuckles between eye rolls or “ugh, mom!s”, and the way two people continue to choose each other through all the seasons of life.

There is SO much love in this family, and I’m just really grateful I got to capture even a small fraction of it. ❤️

And if you’ve been on the fence about booking family photos… if you’re someone who doesn’t love being in front of a camera but feels like you should do it anyway… if your kids are suddenly too cool for pictures… or if you’ve had a hard year and keep telling yourself, “Maybe we should just do it already”…

Here’s your sign. Do it.

Welcome home, baby Theo. You have the best big sister ready to play with you so let’s get a move on it!
09/18/2026

Welcome home, baby Theo. You have the best big sister ready to play with you so let’s get a move on it!

The groom and groomsmen don’t always get a getting-ready room. In this case, Theo got… outside.So that’s where we photog...
09/11/2026

The groom and groomsmen don’t always get a getting-ready room. In this case, Theo got… outside.

So that’s where we photographed; outside. We made it work through some very on-and-off drizzle too.

Theo had some seriously good details and a style that was way too specific to just skip over because there wasn’t a room available.

Sometimes the weather isn’t cooperating, the guys don’t have a suite, but you just figure it out. Luckily, I think his bride was pretty happy with how it turned out.

Second shooter for Cassondra Wood | Philadelphia Wedding Photographer as always

Your dog can be the most well behaved dog in the world, or an absolute maniac the second a new person with a camera show...
09/01/2026

Your dog can be the most well behaved dog in the world, or an absolute maniac the second a new person with a camera shows up. You truly never know what you’re going to get.

🐶🐶The good news? We’ll get the shot.

Sometimes that means letting them run around for a few minutes. Sometimes it means taking a break and trying again. Sometimes it means embracing the chaos until they finally realize I’m not that exciting.

The biggest thing you can do is trust the process and just chill out. Your dog picking that exact moment to become completely unhinged does not mean the photos are ruined.

Honestly, the difference between getting a good photo and having a stressful experience is usually just being able to roll with whatever is happening. Stay positive, have fun, and trust that eventually, your dog is going to look in the right direction for approximately 0.4 seconds.

And I’ll be ready.

08/19/2026

Things I will absolutely say during your session:

* “Okay now one where you’re happy.”
* “Grab her face.. GENTILY.”
* “No, hand in, thumb out.”
* “Never mind, I hate that.”
* “Now kiss.”
* “aaaaaand go.”
* “Just be cool, one time.”

Sometimes, if you’re real cool, I’ll show you a preview of something I was trying to make for you.

When I say family photos, I don’t mean I expect your kids to sit still and smile at me for 45 minutes.Honestly, that sou...
08/12/2026

When I say family photos, I don’t mean I expect your kids to sit still and smile at me for 45 minutes.

Honestly, that sounds miserable for everyone involved.

I’m not interested in screaming, bribing, or repeatedly telling your kid to “look at the camera and smile” until we finally get a photo with a wide mouth and dead eyes. 😂

Will I eventually get that classic everyone-looking-at-the-camera photo? Probably. Usually, once the first 15–20 minutes pass and the novelty of the new person, the camera, and the whole situation starts to wear off, kids (and parents) settle in a little.

But the magic is usually happening before that.

Let them explore. Let them run. Let them be silly. Let them interact with you. Let me notice the little things happening in between the “perfect” moments.

The tiny hand grabbing yours. The way your kid looks at you when they’re laughing. The random little game they make up. The snuggles that happen when nobody asked for them.

That’s the stuff I want to photograph.

Because good family photos aren’t about making your kids behave perfectly for 45 minutes. They’re about giving them room to be themselves and documenting what your family actually feels like right now.

And yes, I’ll still get the photo where everyone looks at me. I promise. 😉

07/28/2026

No? Just me?

Anyone else with the slight disassociation in the towel post shower/pre work?

07/28/2026

I can, I just won’t. Thanks for asking tho. 😂

“But what do I tell everyone when they ask why you’re not coming side you’re finally off work?”

06/17/2026

Maybe it’s just the season I’m in, but it feels like almost every couple I’ve photographed lately has already been together for 10+ years.

They’ve already built a life together. They’ve bought houses, had kids, adopted pets, combined bank accounts, argued about whose turn it is to take out the trash… all the important relationship milestones.

By the time the wedding rolls around, they’re not really interested in putting on a huge production. Most of them are choosing smaller weddings and spending their money on what they actually care about: good food, good drinks, a packed dance floor, and being surrounded by the people they genuinely want there.

As a photographer, it’s been really nice to see. There’s a lot less focus on impressing everyone and a lot more focus on having a great time with the people who matter most.

That’s a wedding trend I can get behind.

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