05/10/2026
i get asked a lot how i lost all my weight and the answer for me is simple.
i finally was honest with myself.
those first two videos are from 2023.
only 3 years ago.
during that time, i was working out more than i do now and not seeing any results.
i tried everything and i just couldn’t figure out why i wasn’t losing weight.
i had struggled silently with my sexuality for 27 years.
i knew deep down i could never actually see a future with a man but i constantly somehow still ended up in relationships with men trying to force a future.
in october of 2023 i decided to finally have a talk with myself, listen to my heart, and ultimately come out of the closet.
this caused me to leave a 2+ year long relationship with a man i lived with and had a dog child with (s/o to john boiii & cooper ween)
i’m not going to lie, it was scary as f**k but in the end, it was the right decision.
now y’all, i’m not saying you gotta come out of the closet to lose weight but my main point is that i finally listened to myself and acknowledged what was going to make ME happy and literally stopped worrying about everyone else.
that’s all it took.
so, if you’re not where you want to be and you constantly feel like you’re not seeing results whether it’s with weight loss, your happiness, life, literally anything, ask yourself, am i focused on what’s going to make ME happy? or am i worried about everyone else?
change your focus and i promise you, everything will fall into place.
you’re also never alone! this is a safe space & i’m always here for you 🫂💓
