03/19/2026
100% it’s top priority that safety matters BUT that’s not the only thing that matters.
How someone was treated, made to feel, the experience, time to process and grieve the experience, feelings of fear-sadness-grief-happiness-love all mixed into the experience, all the feelings, so much more matters!!! A lot of the time when my clients hear this comment they have feelings of not feeling safe to be seen and share their entire experience, emotions and feelings. It’s more harmful than good.