10/15/2020
Real talk for a minute.
Today is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day. 1 in 4 women have (or will have) experienced at least one pregnancy or infant loss in their lifetime. I know several women who have experienced such losses, and I have as well.
It's hard, absolutely heart-breaking to experience, but we far too often hide our pain and go about our lives as usual despite the grief we feel. Some experience pressure to 'get over it', some feel unnecessary guilt over what minuscule thing they may have done during pregnancy (like eating deli meat, drinking any amount of caffeine, or taking too hot of a bath) that could have caused the miscarriage, some feel embarrassed that they're so affected by this loss despite never even getting far enough in to have come up with a name. But ALL loss is worthy of grief. And there is no 'right way' to grieve your loss.
If you've experienced a pregnancy or infant loss (your own, or even a close friend or family member's), feel free to share your story here. And if you'll be participating in the Wave of Light tonight at 7pm, I'd love to see your candles 🌈❤️