02/27/2019
Often times when a person finds themselves pregnant they embark on a journey of education to fill in the gaps that at one point in history were filled with collective shared experience of birthing. ⠀
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These books mainly focus on the individual experience and journey. They do not place the individual experience in context to other life experiences a person may have had that could in fact be informing their birthing (at least none of the ones I had read so far).⠀
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For example, How can that time in high school when you prepared for a big production of guys and dolls have anything to do with birthing a baby? ⠀
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Well stick with me for a minute, let’s say you were excited for your part, you had been waiting to be a part of the production since junior high! But suddenly you are overwhelmed, so many lines to memorize, stage positions, singing and dancing. It just feels like to much and that you will just collapse under the pressure. ⠀
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You finally confide in your Best friend ‘I can’t do it you say.’ Instead of saying ‘oh you’ll be fine’ they recount a story of their own fears and misgivings and how they over came them. And then they say ‘I will run your lines with you and we can practice the dances.’ Suddenly a ray of hope blossoms. You aren’t doing this alone, you aren’t expected too. From every practice moment, until you are up on stage and can see their smiling face in the crowd.⠀
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Whatever your story of doing difficult things you thought you couldn’t do at first and then did. Even when they didn’t turn out as you had hoped but you got up and kept doing the hard thing. You can do hard things, with support. ⠀
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That is how birth is too. It maybe a hard thing. Sometimes a scary thing. Just remember that you can do anything with good support. Build your dream team. And never stop doing the hard things.⠀
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