08/27/2026
A little reminder for anyone deep in wedding planning right now:
You are still allowed to go on dates where you don't talk about the wedding, I swear! 😂
Because somewhere between choosing vendors, answering emails, working through the guest list, making decisions about florals and figuring out where everyone is going to sit, it can become surprisingly easy for wedding planning to become... kind of all you talk about.
And listen, some of that is fun - and obviously necessary! You're planning a giant celebration with all of your favorite people. There are so many things to be excited about.
But as exciting as the wedding is, this season matters, too.
You only get to be engaged for a short window. Don't let the pressure of planning the wedding rush you through the experience of actually being engaged.
Keep dating each other. Keep making memories that have nothing to do with seating charts or vendor emails. Let yourselves enjoy the anticipation of what's ahead without feeling like every free weekend needs to become another opportunity to check something off the list.
Go back to the restaurant where you had your first date.
Have a completely ordinary night on the couch.
Plan something fun that has absolutely nothing to do with your wedding.
Talk about the trip you want to take someday, the house you want to make yours, the traditions you want to create, or what you're most excited about when you think about actually being married.
Your wedding deserves your attention.
But your engagement deserves to be enjoyed, too. 🤍
And sometimes one of the nicest things you can do in the middle of planning your wedding is give yourselves an evening where neither of you has to make a single decision about it.