06/16/2026
There’s something so vulnerable about engagement photos.
You’re meeting a stranger, who’s asking you to kiss on repeat, who yells “yasssss” at you every 5 seconds, but hopefully by the end you’ll be friends.
Why is it so hard to just exist during a photo?
It’s scary. The thing I hear the most is “We’re really awkward so we need a lot of help.”
I see it a lot. You see the camera, you freeze a smile on, you hope your hair isn’t in your face (damn the wind!) you’re suddenly paranoid that there’s something from lunch on your teeth. And for the love of god where do you put your hands?!?!
Engagement photos shouldn’t be focused on production and promotion of your wedding.
You didn’t sign up for love island, you’re not playing truth or dare where you have to makeout for 5 very long minutes.
This is your space to just exist. If that feels awkward, that’s okay. You’re not meant to feel camera ready. You aren’t expected to show up like a fully trained model.
There’s so little space for joy lately. This is one space you can latch on and feel immersed in for just an hour or two.
No forced smiles needed. No staring the camera down. Just you, and your soon-to-be. Together. In love. At peace.
Engagement photos are a reminder of where you’ve been, and where you’re going.
This is the start of your legacy together, show up as the person you want to be remembered as.