The Boudoir Studio

06/09/2026

06/08/2026

What's your favorite pose?

Idk I've never been mad at a 🍑📸
***ir

06/01/2026

Raise your hand if someone spent actual years of your life making you feel like too much.

Too loud. Too sexual. Too sensitive. Too weird. Too intense. Too opinionated. Too big for whatever small room they put you in. Too everything except too quiet and too small which is apparently the only two things that were acceptable.

And you believed them. Because you were young or tired or they were someone who was supposed to love you and so you started editing yourself like a rough draft. Cutting. Shrinking. Filing down every interesting part of yourself until you were finally the right size for their comfort.

I know because I did it too.

I am auDHD. I am weird in ways I couldn't explain or control or turn off no matter how hard I tried and trust me I tried everything. Every strategy. Every mask. Every version of myself I could construct that might finally make me fit somewhere. And every single time I tried to shrink into normal I just stood out more. Like the universe kept turning the volume up every time I tried to turn it down. Absolutely humiliating. Would not recommend.

It wasn't until college that something cracked open. I stopped trying to fit and started just being and something insane happened.

People were drawn to it. Like actually magnetically pulled toward the exact thing I had spent years being ashamed of. The weirdness wasn't the problem. The weirdness was the whole thing. It was the most powerful thing about me and I had been treating it like a liability.

Standing in who I actually was changed everything. My relationships. My work. The way I walked into rooms. The way people responded to me. And I became so obsessed with that feeling that I built my entire life around helping other people find it because nobody should have to spend years apologizing for the most interesting thing about them.

So here's what I know for a fact.
The weird kid is still in there. Still loud. Still filthy. Still too much. Still absolutely feral in the best possible way. She didn't go anywhere she's just been waiting for you to stop apologizing for her existence like she's a problem you're managing.

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05/28/2026

Guess who got in front of my lens today 🤤🔥❤️
Photographing him is my favorite ❤️📸
Who wants to see Joe's sexy side?

05/26/2026

Real question and I want you to actually answer....

When did you people get so goddamn boring?

Not an insult. A seriously genuine question. Because I've met most of you.
I've been in the room with most of you.
I know what's underneath the responsible adult masks you've been wearing and bahahahaha it is NOT boring.

I don't really like boring people ...so I know truthfully
It is feral and complicated and a little bit filthy and I think you miss it, probably more than I do.

I think you miss yourself.

I think somewhere between the job and the relationship and the mortgage and the personality you built for public consumption you put the interesting parts of yourself in a box and told yourself you'd come back for them later and later keeps not coming.

So I'm here. Knocking on the box reminding you to knock down those walls and remember you are supposed to enjoy life cause if not what the f #$k else are we doing here?

05/22/2026

This session was BONKERS like comeee onnnnn

Jeans. Button down. That was it. That was all it took. He walked in a little nervous, we laughed the whole time, and then that shirt came off and baby the angles the lighting the EYES I was done. Like actually done. Put me in the ground.

He did this for his partner, and I fully support it but somewhere in that session it became his too. That is the thing nobody talks about. Men carrying all of that in their bodies every day and never once being invited to slow down, be seen, and actually feel themselves.

He truly owned himself today.

His partner is going to absolutely lose their mind and honestly that is the best possible outcome.

If your man has been sleeping on this, you should tell them to buck up.

***ir

05/21/2026

Just the best POV.... well besides what happens during 😜📷

❤️

05/21/2026

The bo***ir Studio heads to ITALYYYYY with our annual (sometimes bi-annual) The womens Retreat.

In less than 5 months!