09/02/2026
By the end of the session, the little guy gave me his iPad password. I think that's the highest form of trust a five-year-old can offer.
Here's what happened before that: mom told the kids that when I arrived, they'd all play board games together. So I didn't walk in as "the photographer" — I walked in as the reason the fun was starting. For the first stretch I was a fly on the wall. No posing, no "look here," just a family playing.
Then we shifted — the kids did their own thing, and I photographed what was already happening. Later I gave mom one real direction: dance with them by the window. That's it. A few minutes, and some of my favorite frames of the day.
This is what most of your gallery is made of. Not "everybody smile." Just your family, on an ordinary afternoon, doing what they actually do.
Your kids don't need to be perfect for this. They just need to be there.