08/23/2026
I’m gonna give a little advice today because I think people still need to hear this. When choosing your wedding photographer, don’t just look at their Instagram.
Instagram is a highlight reel. Almost every photographer is going to show you their best images.
Instead, ask to see a full wedding gallery.
Look at how they photograph the entire day—not just the portraits and dramatic ceremony photos.
In my opinion, you are just starting to get experienced after 150+ weddings. I’m talking, highly experienced wedding photographers. Heck, I’m still learning a lot even after 300 weddings/events.
Do you like the way they capture the quiet moments? The family interactions? The in-between moments? The reception? The people you might not even realize were being photographed? The ceremony and couples portraits make up a very small percentage of the day.
And just as importantly, ask yourself:
Does this photographer’s approach match how I want to remember my wedding?
If you want your photographs to feel natural, emotional, and true to the way the day actually happened, make sure you’re choosing someone whose portfolio consistently reflects that—not just someone who has a few beautiful images you love.
When viewing a photographers portfolio, a few things to look for… how well do they handle bad/low lighting conditions? How is their composition throughout the portfolio and how well do they fill(or not fill in some cases)the frame. Are they able to “tell a story” within the photograph? Do their photographs look intentional?
Does their portfolio look consistent? Or does it look like 10 different photographers?
Lastly, watch for photographers using AI generated images in their portfolio. I’ve heard of entire websites being AI photos because the photographer didn’t really have a portfolio yet.
And remember… Your wedding photographer isn’t just creating individual pictures.
They’re creating the visual record of an entire day.