05/11/2026
Today I want to talk about something that has been weighing on me for a while: second marriages.
The wedding and elopement industry often leads us to believe that your wedding day is a “one and done” thing. That you only get to do this once. And in a perfect world, maybe that would be the case, but life is rarely that simple.
Sometimes after heartbreak, loss, growth, or years spent becoming who you truly are, you get a second chance at love, and in turn, a second chance at how you choose to celebrate that love.
As a young divorcée myself, I know what it feels like to look back and realize the first wedding didn’t actually reflect who you were. I did the big white wedding with the seating charts, 200 guests, and linens that perfectly matched the colors… and truthfully, it couldn’t have been further from me.
What I’ve found is that many of the couples who elope with me are in a similar position. They did the big traditional wedding the first time around, so when they get a second chance, they dive into it fully, honoring the connection they share with their person in a way that feels intentional and true to who they are now.
For couples stepping into a second marriage, this is a chance to embrace your wedding day with intention, depth, and unbridled emotion. A chance to do and say all the things you may have been too afraid to the first time around. A chance to let your wedding day be about more than just the day itself, but the beginning of an entirely new chapter.
For many couples, eloping becomes so much more than an instagram adventure. It becomes the chance to celebrate your relationship in a way that feels meaningful to you, with the courage and confidence you may not have had the first time around.
So to the couples stepping into a second marriage: I see you. I see how meaningful this day is to you. Your love is just as worthy of celebration as anyone else’s, and this chapter deserves to be honored with reverence and intention.
This time, you get to do it your way. And I’m here to make sure it’s everything you’ve dreamed of and more.
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