06/22/2022
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“The q***r community attempts to define butchness and in that process, creates different pressures and partitions….We fail when we rigidify what butchness means and further reinforce arbitrary binaries that were thrust onto us by a world that wasn’t ready for us.
I have felt and been made to feel like a failed butch by people on all ends of the spectrum because I can be extremely flamboyant in my mannerisms sometimes and in the way I dance, even though my presentation is seen as masculine. But I feel so wholly feminine and masculine at the same time, with different moments for each to shine. I am both carhartt camo work pants AND strutting the dancefloor to “sissy that walk”, all wrapped into one. I am not butch in relation to anyone else or any given standard….I am butch in the way I know myself and I know what that means to me.
So how do we succeed?
We succeed when we allow butch people to define their gender presentation and identities for themselves, and make space for flexibility and expressions of femininity within butchness.
We succeed when we open butchness up so that it can encompass all of us who are well… butch. There is so much joy and freedom in q***rness and butchness, and we and all the folks who love us deserve to live in that joy and freedom every day.”
- - Badriiyyah S.
Issue 9 - The Failure & Success Edition
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