03/16/2020
To all my brides and grooms who have had to reschedule their weddings in the midst of COVID-19, I see you. Your heart is absolutely broken. You feel robbed. You have every right to feel that way. It’s okay to be angry. It’s ok to cry. You’ve spent months (or years) planning this day, spent money that might not be returned in some cases, spent hours on DIY projects or working with artists, made plans with your friends and family. And now, you’re being asked to make compromises and impossible decisions, all while having all the same fears and worries everyone else who isn’t even planning a wedding is having. Frankly, this s**t sucks. I want you to hear me say this loud and clear: I’m here for you. If you need to vent, give me a call. If you want someone to hear you cry or feel heard or just to talk about it in any capacity, you’ve got my number. Hell, call me even if you don’t even know what you need and just want an ear to chat with. I will not tell you how you should feel. I will only assure you that you did the right thing by following the CDC guidelines, but that doesn’t make your feelings any less significant. If you can take comfort in the fact that you have almost positively saved lives by postponing your day, please do. Doesn’t make it hurt any less, but it does mean that when your wedding day does come, it will be a joyful day instead of a panicked one. Your guests will actually want to dance. Everyone will be much safer and you won’t have to constantly worry. Because let’s be real, weddings can be stressful enough without a global pandemic looming overhead. I’m sending all my love to each and every one of you. Please lean on me and let’s get through this together. 💙