08/29/2026
An interesting thing started happening when I switched to Soul Portraiture. Turns out, asking women to vulnerably share their story and bravely name what they want to see in themselves, produces photography that’s more than “pretty”. More than sexual, desirable, skinny, curvy, beautiful…more substance.
I couldn’t quite put my finger on why until I started to recognize what was emerging instead. There is a sacred rage and grief held collectively by the feminine experience. A fire that burns hot and bright against the injustice of having to shrink, bend, and diminish. And that rage lives right next to a well of grief. Deep and wide, the pain of recognizing what life “could be”. If only.
If only we didn’t have to worry about our safety. If only we could enjoy our sexuality just for us. If only, it didn’t feel like we have to do life with a feminine tax. If only, our power, whimsy, softness, and strength could be viewed as parts of the whole without slotting us into caricature. If only, we could be free to be both love and rage, both grief and joy, both stuck and striving.
Turns out, we can.
We can turn our gaze inward to where the only judge is our heart, mind, and ego. We can lock eyes with one another and give each other the deep recognition our souls crave. We can come alongside and link arms to walk toward a more expansive way of being. We can shoulder one another when we can’t go any further and we can be the hands that help.
Seeing the honesty in these images reminds me we are not just strong, resilient, and capable. We also sit in a far more powerful seat than we think. You are the only one sovereign over your own life. You are the only one who can decide who gets a seat at your table. And you are the only one who can change that if recalibration is desperately needed.
You are sovereign over your own life and, turns out, we can do whatever the f**k we want.