DeMato Productions, Astoria, NY (2026)

09/02/2026

Most people think event photos start when the speaker walks onstage. If that’s when the camera comes out of the bag, the opportunity to share the full story is gone for good.

Of course you need the packed room, big screens, applause, and speaker doing their thing. But the story starts before somebody says, “Please welcome…”

Think about the time before the keynote. Reviewing notes in the hotel room or backstage. Walking the room. Talking with the organizer. Getting mic’d up. Prepping with the AV team. Standing backstage while the room fills.

Those moments give a decision maker something the stage shots can’t: a feel for how you prepare, how you interact with the people around you, and what it’s like to have you contribute to the success of their event.

And the story doesn’t stop when the applause begins.

What happens after you step offstage? The participant who tells you what landed. The questions in the hallway. The hugs. The selfies. The book signing. The conversation with the organizer after the room clears.

Those moments show the reaction to the work you just did.

Depending on what you’re creating later, these photos can give you options for social posts, speaker materials, event recaps, articles, and pages that need something other than another arms-out-wide stage photo.

This is why I think about the beginning, middle and end whenever a camera is pointed at an expert. The performance matters, but it’s only one part of the world you need to show decision makers.

You can’t predict every asset you’ll create 6 months from now. You can capture enough of the people, preparation, environment, reactions and little details surrounding the work that you have choices when that need shows up.

Capturing the keynote from all angles matters. So does everything that shows how you got there and what happened because you did.

08/31/2026

I've been a guest on a bunch of podcasts.

More than once, I've seen the episode graphic go live with a photo of me I did not choose, did not love, and in one case did not even remember taking.

Nobody emailed me to ask for one. Of course they didn't. They Googled my name, clicked Images, grabbed the first decent-looking shot, dropped it in the template, and moved on. Forty seconds, tops.

And I get it. I'm not mad at them. They were busy, on a deadline, and they needed a face. The internet handed them one.

The people putting your face on their stuff aren't curating. They're grabbing. They pull whatever surfaces first, which means the photo you forgot existed is out there doing PR for you in rooms you'll never see, picked by someone who gave it a quick thought.

There's a stupidly simple fix for this, and almost nobody does it.

I wrote up what the problem actually costs you and how to take the decision back. But first, go Google yourself and click Images. You'll see exactly what I mean.

https://bit.ly/4wmajRJ

08/28/2026

Scroll her feed and you'll find the book cover. The product render. A quote card. The book cover again, different angle.

Go back about four months before you find her face.

She has good photos from a session two years ago. They're sitting in a folder and she reaches for the 2-dimensional graphic every single time.

Substitution feels safer, and it costs more than the thing she's avoiding.

Here's what's happening on the other end.

Somebody's been reading your stuff for six weeks and is starting to think about hiring you, referring you, or handing you their stage.

So they go looking for the person, and they find inventory, instead.

A book cover proves a book exists, sure, but meeting planners and the people signing your contracts are looking for something else entirely.

They want to see the human they'd be putting in front of their audience, and digital graphics - along with all the other non-you photos - can't cover that job.

How often you appear matters more than any single post.

If your last twenty pieces of content have you in two of them, the math is telling people something you weren’t setting out to say. It quietly tells the decision maker you're hiding, whether true or not. And, it’s that initial read that will get you silently deprioritized.

Try this on your next five posts. Two share a photo of you in a room speaking from the stage. One showcases one of your favorite branding photos. The other two can be whatever you want.

Give your audience of potential buyers the opportunity to connect with you before you open your mouth.

Not sure what your feed and your site are signaling right now? Run the 10-second scan and see it the way a stranger does: https://bit.ly/45msrzv

08/27/2026

Nineteen years in her space of expertise. She'll debate anybody and walk away with it.

Put a camera in front of her face and she's hiding under the lectern.

I used to think those two things were connected. Fix the confidence, fix the camera. That's wrong, and most advice about this gets it wrong the same way.

Being sure of your expertise and being comfortable getting looked at with a camera are two separate things.

One is about what you know and your passion to help others.

The other is about being the subject, which most experts have spent an entire career not being.

You're the person who points out the thing, and now, somebody's asking you to be the thing.

So directing you to relax and be confident falls on defiant and deaf ears.

You are confident. That's not the friction point.

What makes the difference is changing what the photo is for in your mind.

The second the camera stops asking you to be looked at and starts documenting what you’re doing, your whole body changes. Hands move. Eyes go where they're supposed to go. You forget the lens is in the room, because you’re in the act of doing your thing.

“Come with me on my journey,” instead of “look at me, I’m amazing, right”?

Practically, that means fewer sessions where you stand and pose, and more coverage of you working.

Somebody in the room at your next workshop. Your next client session. Your next talk, shot from the audience.

The camera transforms from a torture device into an evidence-gathering machine. You just do the thing you've done for umpteen amount of years.

Solid on your expertise and still dreading the lens? The fix is in what gets shot. Let's talk it through:
https://bit.ly/45BsYNS

08/25/2026

She keeps a Word doc listing every single social post she’s posted.

Description, date, platform, which post. Typed by hand.

My brain explodes thinking about that level of detail. It explodes for another reason, too:

She never kept track of the photos she’s using. That means she still can't tell if she's repeating the same shots over and over again.

While you hear plenty about getting photos taken, you hear nothing about the importance of displaying variety in your photos across your entire visual presence.

What do I mean by that?

Repetition of the same small handful of images makes the decision maker feel a certain way - and not in a good way. Those same three images showing up everywhere reads as stagnation to the person evaluating you, even when your work has moved miles since.

The fix is smaller than a Word doc.

When an image ships, either move it to a USED PHOTO folder or use color highlights that signify they’ve been placed somewhere.

Then give your core images a shelf life. Six months on a primary touchpoint, then it rotates down into content and something else takes the spot.

You stop tracking and start rotating.

No idea whether you've been recycling the same handful of shots? Bring your library to a call and let's find out: https://bit.ly/3RLM4gT

08/24/2026

Most experts pour their energy into the visuals everyone can see.

The LinkedIn headshot. The website photos. The images for your social media content.
Many experts, however, don’t think about the impression that happens in private.

There's a moment in every sale where one person sits alone with your document, on their screen, deciding whether you're worth their time.

That's the highest-intent moment in your whole business. The point where real money is actually on the line.

And it tends to get the least attention of anything you put out.

Funny how the impression with the most riding on it is so often the one we throw together in a rush.

Wrote about where this blind spot comes from, and what it quietly costs over a full year.

https://bit.ly/3QNA0eM

08/21/2026

Her photo library was immaculate. Folders by year, subfolders by shoot, everything renamed and tagged. She could find any image in under a minute.

Yet, she hit a wall - hard - every single time she attempted to update her one sheet.

“Organized” and “comprehensive” are two different things - and the second one is the one that helps gets you into more sales conversations.

She had 968 images, and just about every one of them was a branding image. Her against a white wall. Her against a brick wall. Her laughing at something off camera. Stuff like that.

Some of those images are useful, but here's what that one sheet was SCREAMING for.

Her on a stage with the audience in the shot. Her passionately delivering her message of transformation. Her surrounded afterward by participants who won’t shut up about how amazing she was.

None of those existed. Nobody ever shot them, because nobody told her how important they are.

So she'd spent weeks reorganizing an incomplete library of photos, getting faster at retrieving photos that couldn't deliver on all of her needs across her entire online visual presence.

An organized library still can't hand you a photo nobody took.

Take twenty minutes and work backwards. List your live touchpoints. Homepage, speaker page, services page, LinkedIn banner, the one-sheet, your last four posts. Next to each one, write what type of photo is required to complement the copy on those assets.

Now check what you own against that list.

The holes are your shot list. Hand it to your next branding photographer, or the person shooting your next keynote, or use it yourself on a Tuesday with your phone.

Knowing where everything is only matters when you've got the bases covered.

Want a second set of eyes on what your library still can't do? That's the work I do with my people: https://bit.ly/4hfV7RT

08/20/2026

I had a client tell me she spends more time hunting for the image than writing the post it goes with.

This is not a once-in-a-while thing. Every. Single. Week.

Ugh.

She writes the thing in twenty minutes. Then she opens the folder, scrolls, opens a second folder, scrolls, gives up, grabs the same event shot she used three times already, and when she posts it, she feels like a failure.

Ugh... again.

Twenty minutes to write it. Forty minutes to find the photo. Every week, all year. I’m not a math guy but that's multiple work weeks spent scrolling.

The thing that sucks most is that all that time earned her nothing. She landed back on the same three images anyway, so the hunt was purely burning precious time.

The hunt takes forever because you're searching without a target. You open the folder hoping divine intervention takes the wheel. Spoiler alert - that’s not how this works.

So flip the order. Before you open anything, finish the copy and answer one question.

“What does this piece need the reader to believe?”

If the post is about a room you spoke in, show you speaking in a room.

If it's about your behind the scenes process, show them what that process looks like.

If it's about who you are when you're not working, show something that would never belong on a services page but it’s an important part of your life that adds the human touch.

Now you have a mission instead of a scavenger hunt. Two minutes, tops.

Your folder was never the problem. It’s how you interact with it that’s causing the friction.
Is finding the image the thing that slows you down every week?

That's most of what I fix, and here's how: https://bit.ly/4pQ9LBk

08/18/2026

You decide to renovate your kitchen.

So you hire a demo crew and let them tear the whole thing down to the studs. No blueprint. No plan. No decisions made about layout, new equipment, countertops or cabinets.

Then you stand in the rubble and go, "okay, now what?"

Nobody does this because that would be insane.

But it's exactly what many experts do with their visuals all the time.

They book a shoot hoping the session will somehow work out. Like the right photos will magically appear out of thin air.

When creating the right visuals that align who you are, how you help others, and the level at which you operate, you need to think before you shoot.

The clarity comes first, who you serve, what you sell, where you're headed, the rooms you work in, and then the session brings that plan to life.

Walk in with the blueprint, and every shot has a job to do.

Walk in winging it, and you'll get a pile of beautiful images that point in no particular direction.

Clarity is the blueprint. The shoot is the build. In that order. Every single time.

Do you have the blueprint, or are you hoping the demo crew figures it out?

08/17/2026

Nobody really teaches you how to sit with the question of what's next.

You hit a point where the thing you built, the job, the business, the role, the version of yourself you worked so hard to become, starts quietly asking you what comes after it. And most of us don't know. We feel the stress and urgency while the calendar keeps moving.

Here's what I've noticed. We treat that not-knowing like a problem to solve as fast as possible, because the discomfort is pretty brutal over time.

But the discomfort isn't a glitch. It's the price you pay for being the kind of person who refuses to stay somewhere that does not serve you and those around you.

The fear and the excitement that comes with it aren't rivals, they’re relatives.

I turned 48 today, and I'm staring at the what’s next question directly in the face.

I wrote about what reminded me I've lived through this exact moment before, and why I'm strangely okay with it this time.

https://bit.ly/3SEMBkW

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