03/06/2022
The other day I came into the kitchen around supper time and found this little one crying. She and her sister love their dad and had tried to call him but were unable to get ahold of him. It was to much.
For me, being a man it makes it a bit more difficult to connect with the girls. It takes some time to win their trust… which is perfectly ok. Some of these little ones have seen, or been through things that they should never had to.
So as I saw her sitting on the chair sobbing quietly I just reached down and picked her up wrapping my arms around her and taking her away from the rest of the kids sitting at the tables. I found a bench and sat down with her still wrapped up in my arms and I began to rock her and hum. She then quickly went from a guarded position to a full on bear hug trying to out do me! It was just what she needed. To feel safe and loved, and now if ever she sees me she runs full tilt for a bear hug of which she seems to never tire of trying to out squeeze me. 😊. No worries she still loves her real daddy but she knows that we love her too.