11/07/2023
Life comes at you pretty fast. Don't blink or you might miss it.
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Lately when I meet someone and they ask me how old I am, I'm surprised by my answer. It didn't seem that long ago when that number felt smaller....and more manageable. Fortunately the reactions are still generally one of surprise where people don't think I look (act?) my age (asian don't raisin). But the reality is that I'm a lot older than I remember I was and it brings about a lot of reflection.
I keep reminding myself that everyone's path is different but I can't help but look around at my friends and notice the vast difference between where I am in life and where others are (married, 2 kids, etc). The difference that just a few years ago felt small but manageable now feels like a vast ocean. I'm not envious but it's more just an awareness of how something that was once very familiar is now much different and I can't get over how fast it all happened.