18/08/2026
Maybe this shouldnβt be controversial, but a simple wedding is not an unfinished wedding. And a small wedding is not a lesser version of a big one.
Tristen and Gabe had around 50 guests and almost no rigid timeline. They got married outside at the Newton Arboretum, then everyone went inside and spent the rest of the day eating, talking, laughing, and being together.
Honestly, it was basically a family reunion with a wedding at the beginning.
That was about it.
And it was beautifulβnot βbeautiful for a simple wedding.β Beautiful, full stop. It was far more genuine and full of life than plenty of weddings Iβve seen with many thousands of dollars more behind them.
There was room for people to be people. Their families could actually spend time together. Tristen and Gabe had space to look at each other and realize they were married. Nothing needed to be manufactured into a meaningful moment for the camera. The meaning was already there.
I love an elaborate wedding. I love enormous flowers, beautiful tables, and the sort of tiny details someone spent months choosing. But those things are additions. They arenβt the substance.
Money can create spectacle. It cannot create intimacy, history, ease, or the way two best friends look at each other just after promising forever.
A wedding does not need to impress anyone in order to be deeply beautiful. It only needs to belong to the people getting married.
Married people, tell the engaged people reading this: what mattered far less than you expectedβand what mattered far more?
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