Valour by Gabs

Valour by Gabs TAKE CONTROL. GROW WITH CONFIDENCE. Strategist, Mentor & Speaker
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First Netwalking ✔️ Today was proof that pushing myself out of my comfort zone to organise this was worth it. It was a l...
04/03/2026

First Netwalking ✔️

Today was proof that pushing myself out of my comfort zone to organise this was worth it. It was a lovely little walk and I thoroughly enjoyed it. 🤗

The most gorgeous little route around the public footpaths and the North Downs Way. A special thank you to Lewis & Jo for joining me.

The next netwalking event will be on national walking day which is April 1st! The link is in my bio and I’d love to see you there. 🌼

New on my Substack: “Scaling Back to Move Forward” 🤍Over the past year, I’ve learned that doing more isn’t always better...
27/02/2026

New on my Substack: “Scaling Back to Move Forward” 🤍

Over the past year, I’ve learned that doing more isn’t always better… especially when energy, focus, and alignment matter. I’m sharing why I’m taking a more intentional approach to my brand photography, how I structure my work, and why confidence is built in the moment, not just in the final images.

If you’ve ever felt stretched, overwhelmed, or unsure how to protect your energy while still delivering impact, this one’s for you.

It’s also for you if you’re curious about how my brand photography actually works: the packages, the process, and how I guide clients to feel confident during the shoot.

Read the full story here: https://open.substack.com/pub/valourbygabs/p/scaling-back-to-move-forward-why?r=7ffvzv&utm_medium=ios

Wishing you all a lovely weekend.

Be kind, always.

Gabs ###

Today had me reflecting.Last Saturday, I woke up and decided it was time to share my new direction. No perfect plan, jus...
21/02/2026

Today had me reflecting.

Last Saturday, I woke up and decided it was time to share my new direction. No perfect plan, just a spur of the moment decision.

7 days of commitment to myself and 7 days where I’m proud I showed up every day.

No career path is linear. Over the last five years especially, I’ve learnt that setbacks aren’t failures. They’re redirections.

Across my career, I’ve spoken at more than 20 events. Rooms full of people I didn’t know, with conversations that stretched me and opportunities that shaped me.

What most people don’t see is this:

I dropped out of my A Levels and was relentlessly bullied for it.
I worked my way up through management roles across multiple retailers.
I was made redundant at 21 while most of my year group were starting grad jobs.
I stepped into the biggest role I’d ever had and played a pivotal part during COVID.
I burnt out.
I returned to an even bigger role.
I had an accident that significantly impacted my memory.
I changed sectors.
I went travelling.
I became a carer.
I started working for myself.
I’ve applied for roles I thought were meant for me and heard nothing back.
Now I’m pivoting again.

None of it has been straight.
None of it has been easy.

Speaking still makes me nervous. The last time I stood on stage, I clung to prompt cards when I would once have trusted myself to just speak. Confidence can be rebuilt. Courage is a practice.

Every chapter has taught me something about resilience, integrity and protecting your mental health while building a career.

Speaking has never been about status for me. It’s about service. If sharing my story helps even one person feel less behind, less broken or less alone, it’s worth it.

So here’s me, committing to take on more speaking opportunities in 2026. To show up, to share, and to keep helping others feel seen and capable.

A little nervous to share this… but mostly excited. I said I would do this, and I’m doing it.I’m so proud to introduce m...
20/02/2026

A little nervous to share this… but mostly excited. I said I would do this, and I’m doing it.

I’m so proud to introduce my very first Netwalking event on Wednesday 4th March 2026. Created for creatives, business owners and anyone who wants to network in a way that feels comfortable, and a little less ‘formal’.

We’ll be walking through Seale, one of my favourite stomping grounds. A beautiful village surrounded by countryside, with the loveliest tea room right by our starting point, because connection is always better with a hot beverage.

This isn’t about pitching.
It’s about conversation.
Fresh air.
New ideas.
Expanding your community.

If you’d love to come, I would genuinely love to welcome you.

All the details are in the link in my bio. My DMs are open if you have any questions.

Be kind, always, and I hope to see some of you there.

Gabs ###

There’s a unique fatigue in knowing your story is more layered than what others perceive. Rebuilding takes patience, res...
17/02/2026

There’s a unique fatigue in knowing your story is more layered than what others perceive. Rebuilding takes patience, resilience, and above all, courage. It asks you to stay grounded in your own truth, no matter the noise around you.

I’m so excited for this new chapter of VALOUR by Gabs and can’t wait for you to see what’s coming.

Restarting isn’t failure.One year of walking, 800 km over the last 6 months and countless small steps.Here’s to new begi...
16/02/2026

Restarting isn’t failure.

One year of walking, 800 km over the last 6 months and countless small steps.

Here’s to new beginnings, imperfect progress, and showing up for yourself in 2026. Whether it’s a habit, a business, or finally writing again.

I’m proud of what I’ve been creating lately and of taking the steps I’d been putting off for too long. 🤍

🔗 https://open.substack.com/pub/valourbygabs/p/restarting-isnt-failure-my-first?r=7ffvzv&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

Long time no see ❤️It’s been quite the few weeks over here but feel like I’m slowly getting back on track. One of the th...
26/11/2025

Long time no see ❤️

It’s been quite the few weeks over here but feel like I’m slowly getting back on track. One of the things they don’t tell you when you start a business is just how many plates there are to spin! That said, some exciting things going on which I can’t wait to share with you all.

This was just a few snippets from this mornings walk. Nothing beats watching the sunrise on a frosty morning. I just wish I’d taken my camera!

Who’s looking forward to Black Friday? Would you want to see any offers from me? 👀

The start of new beginnings. ✨This morning’s sunrise felt like the perfect symbol for where I’m at right now. A fresh st...
12/11/2025

The start of new beginnings. ✨

This morning’s sunrise felt like the perfect symbol for where I’m at right now. A fresh start, a new chapter, and the excitement of what’s ahead.

Today was the first day of my business course, and I met the most wonderful group of people, all at such different stages in their journeys.

I honestly love networking. It reminds me so much of what I loved about working in retail, connecting with people, sharing stories, and cheering each other on. It’s also a reminder of exactly why I do what I do now.

Hearing people say that my passion for my work came across so clearly was the icing on the cake. I really do love my job. I love helping business owners show up as their best, most confident selves. 🤍

This month also marks the end of two of my longest retainer clients, both after six amazing months together. It’s such a bittersweet feeling. I’ve absolutely loved working with them and I’m so proud that they now have the tools and confidence to continue growing on their own. Watching their content evolve from afar will be such a joy. 🥹

With that, I now have two new spaces opening for complete social media management, with a friendly reminder that all my packages include monthly photography and videography.

If you’d love a chat to find out more, drop me a message. I’m always up for a coffee (or lunch!) to talk all things business. ☕💬

People often ask why I go back to Farnborough Hill. The place I left so abruptly, and where things ended so painfully. T...
07/11/2025

People often ask why I go back to Farnborough Hill. The place I left so abruptly, and where things ended so painfully. The answer is simple: it’s not the same school anymore, and I’m not the same person who walked away.

The message to the girls is very different now. They’re no longer told that success comes from following one set path, or that a certain type of university is the only way forward. They’re encouraged to see that there are many ways to build a life, and that every path has value.

I hope, and truly believe, no one would ever again tell a student that they’ll get nowhere in life without A Levels. It’s a sentence I’ll never forget. Not because it defined me, but because it didn’t. Twelve years later, I still can’t believe several adults thought it appropriate to say that to a child.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting; it means letting go of the version of yourself that was hurt. Dropping out halfway through my A Levels wasn’t the plan, but it was the first real turning point of my life. The moment I stepped into the real world, where everything changed.

Time transforms everything, be it places, people, or purpose. Sometimes, just sometimes, when you give something another chance, you rediscover a piece of yourself you didn’t realise was missing.

Why is ending racism a debate?Today I finally visited  to see ’s exhibition, The Purpose of Light.This question stops me...
05/11/2025

Why is ending racism a debate?

Today I finally visited to see ’s exhibition, The Purpose of Light.

This question stops me. Time and time again. It’s 2025, and we’re still having to ask why ending racism is a debate.

This isn’t just a statement, it’s a mirror. A mirror of the choices we make, the courage we summon, and the cost of refusing to stay silent.

Research shows unconscious bias shapes decisions and behaviours everywhere, especially in the workplace, often in ways we don’t even notice. Some conversations are beyond uncomfortable, but the ones that matter the most often are.

In every workplace I’ve been in, I’ve always spoken up against racism. I’ve often felt like the outsider, the “black sheep”, but I’d rather stand for what’s right than allow harmful behaviour to continue unchecked.

Integrity isn’t loud. It’s the quiet decision to do what’s right, even when it comes at a personal cost. Courage is standing firm when the easier path is to look away.

It’s taken me a while to mentally get to the stage where I could visit this gallery in person, and specifically see this piece, a piece that hits home quite hard for me.

It reminded me that staying true to your values is rarely simple, but it shapes everything that comes after.

Progress, justice, and self-respect all begin with the choice to speak, and act, with integrity.

We can all do better.

Thank you Misan, Aki, and everyone who has made this such an inspiring space to experience such powerful photography; one that challenges, educates, and reminds us why integrity, among many other things, matters.

Why bespoke brand photography will always outperform stock imagery!Stock photos can look polished but they can’t communi...
03/11/2025

Why bespoke brand photography will always outperform stock imagery!

Stock photos can look polished but they can’t communicate authenticity.

When your clients invest in a service like lip blush, they want to understand the care, precision and artistry behind it. Real imagery of you in action captures that in a way no stock photo ever could.

Every business has a visual language and brand photography will help you define yours. It builds trust, consistency and emotional connection. It’s not just what you do, but how you do it.

These nine are some of my favourites, showcasing creating the full lip blush experience from preparation to the final reveal. Each frame tells part of the story; together they convey the professionalism, skill and attention to detail that set your work apart.

When your visuals are intentional, every image becomes part of your brand identity. Take a scroll over to ’s profile to see how she’s using her imagery. 💋

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