Simplystylishweddings

14/04/2026

Great pre-wedding meeting at for next month's wedding there.
Meet the groom and got to discuss plans, shame bride couldn't get off work but we'll catch up before the big day.
Beautiful venue and great team, pictures are going to look stunning.
Can't wait for this one, drone well be out for this one, it's been added to the package. 🥰🥰🥰

14/04/2026

Please, please, please don't be this person. I know times are tough and money is tight but really, on your wedding day you should prioritise what's important. Partner is (1), then key elements that will be with you forever, memories etc. I know it differs person to person but if you want photos and think they're important (enough to send out help posts like this) book a professional!!
One that's got a reputation of reliability, something they risk losing, insurance, back up equipment and people, and 6hrs for £250 is too cheap for that.
Yes, try to save money but don't risk your day. Save of second drinks, lose £200 behind the bar, a tier of cake, if you've booked a bouncy castle and cheapskated on a professional you should have known this is a risk.
I must be getting old, I get so frustrated (so do all the pros) seeing this sort of thing, I booked 8hrs for £250 quid and they've dandelion due to health reasons. It's always health, relative in a hospital etc, something you feel sympathy with so you don't kick off. The true reason is, they don't need to do yours they have enough portfolio shots now, got a better paying gig, realised it's more difficult than they thought and they're not good at it, and almost certainly didn't want to call you earlier so now you're in the s**t and crying/panicking.
I worked through a smashed big toe nail (36hrs before a wedding) I apologised, brought another photographer for the main parts, worked the full day anyway and covered 9 miles. Granted it hurt a lot, I swallowed too many painkillers but I was there, the clients got more than they planned and no one was aware (apart from witnessing a limping old guy, 🤣🤣🤣🤣) but the couple got way more than expected.
That's what pros do, many of my collegues in the industry would do. Reputation really matters to us and dropping I clients is unthinkable.
Sorry for the rant but this is self inflicted stress, you took a risk, it blew up in your face. Yes, I'm sympathetic I hate to see people sad around their big day but maybe open your eyes when you look at suppliers. Choose wisely and be sensible.

16/12/2025

🚨 Bridezilla Alert (with a side of reality) 🚨

So I’ve just seen a request for a professional wedding photographer for 20th December 2025…
Yes.
Four days away.

I scrolled on.
Ranted internally.
Came back.
Because honestly… this post deserves a public service announcement.

Let’s unpack the red flags waving harder than the confetti cannon 🎉

🚩 Red Flag #1:
Why are you sourcing a professional photographer 4 days before your wedding?
No mention of cancellation. No illness. No emergency.
Just vibes and panic.

🚩 Red Flag #2:
“The ceremony is 1.5 hours.”
Is it though?
Unless you’ve been shooting weddings for years, let’s be real:

• Groom arrives 20–30 mins early
• Bride arrives 10–15 mins before
• Ceremony 20–30 mins
• Exit, hugs, chaos, more hugs
• Group photos (that never take 10 mins)

That timeline is… optimistic at best.

🚩 Red Flag #3:
Dinner 1.5 hours — fair enough. No beef there 🍗

🚩 Red Flag #4 (the big one):
Budget: £300

Now listen — a budget is a budget. No judgement.
But here’s what some people don’t seem to grasp…

What exactly do you think the photographer is doing between the ceremony and dinner?
Going home?
Catching a film?
Playing PlayStation?

No.
You’re asking them to wait around unpaid, likely unfed, with £2k–£10k worth of gear, until you decide you want them back.

Let’s break this down:

📸 Arrive early (minimum 30 mins)
📸 Shoot the wedding
📸 Sit around for hours
📸 Travel (fuel isn’t getting cheaper)
📸 Edit for at least the same amount of time as shooting
📸 Backup files, admin, emails, software costs
📸 £1k+ computer
📸 Lightroom subscription
📸 Experience, pressure, responsibility

All in, you’re easily asking for 10+ hours of work.

And offering…
💸 £20–£30 an hour
On a Saturday
With zero flexibility
And a list of demands delivered colder than a December church.

You want someone to:
✨ Capture your once-in-a-lifetime day
✨ Make everyone look angelic
✨ Be calm, warm, professional
✨ Deliver “beautiful memories forever”

For less than a plumber charges to maybe turn up and fix a dripping tap.

This doesn’t say “I value creativity.”
It says “I’ll treat you like Bob Cratchit’s flea-infested dog and still expect magic.”

And here’s the real kicker:
Posts like this are the ones that end with
📱 “Worst photographer EVER”
📱 “RUINED my wedding”
📱 “Would NOT recommend”

(Assuming the photos ever arrive.)

I’ve shot £300 weddings before — by choice, with mutual respect, kindness, and realistic expectations.
Not at the snap of someone’s fingers.

This isn’t about money.
It’s about how you communicate and treat people.

Good photographers want to help.
They give extra time.
They go above and beyond.
They care deeply about your day.

But not if you’re an arse.

So here’s the takeaway 👇
Be the best bride you can be — even on a tight budget.
Respect your photographer.
Because they absolutely can make or break your day.

Be kind.
We all want you to have the best wedding possible ❤️

23/11/2025

Another beautiful day at one of the really stars in the wedding venue lists.
Perfect for a 10-50 person wedding during mid week, and possibly larger too.

02/10/2025

Thursday evening wedding meeting at the flint rooms. Really unique venue. Can't wait until Sunday.

12/08/2025

The website is full of useful information and tips like this.

With the frequency of extreme heat events on the rise in the UK, planning a summer wedding now requires some extra thought and preparation.

29/05/2025

✨ FIRST wedding back at the newly reopened Norwich Castle Museum – and what. a. day! ☀️

These two brought all the sunshine, all the laughs, and a whole lot of love to their relaxed registry office ceremony. After their “I dos,” we took a gentle stroll through the city – Royal Arcade, marketplace, a celebratory pint in town – snapping relaxed, natural shots as we went. Norwich truly showed off. 💛

https://thetfordphotography.co.uk/norwich-castle-museum-wedding-may-2025/

Also, shoutout to the two teenage lads who offered up their bench so we could get the perfect Castle shot 🙌 Proof that kindness still shines through.

If you're planning a 2025 wedding in Norwich, this venue is BACK and looking stunning. 🎉

If you’re thinking about getting married at Norwich Castle Museum, you’re in for something pretty special – especially now that the refurbishments are (finally!) nearing completion. I had the absolute joy of photographing the very first wedding back in the newly reopened registry office this M...

28/05/2025

🐾💍 Saying 'I Do' with Your Dog by Your Side? 💍🐾

We've captured countless weddings across East Anglia where furry friends have taken center stage—whether as dapper ring bearers, adorable flower pups, or simply the most enthusiastic guests on the dance floor.

Including your dog in your wedding isn't just a trend; it's a heartfelt way to celebrate your bond with your loyal companion. From walking down the aisle together to posing for unforgettable portraits, your pup can add a unique touch to your special day.

As experienced wedding photographers in East Anglia, we understand the nuances of capturing these precious moments. Whether it's coordinating with pet-friendly venues or ensuring your dog feels comfortable amidst the festivities, we've got you covered.

🐶 Thinking of making your dog part of your big day? Let's chat about how we can make it picture-perfect! 📸

27/05/2025

🌿 Whatever the weather, Lanwades Hall delivers magic. 💍

My first visit to this Suffolk gem was on a spring day filled with blue skies and a touch of rain — but nothing could dampen the joy of this incredible couple. From the sweeping tree-lined drive to the romantic Sunken Garden and the cozy glow of the Great Hall, every corner of this Edwardian manor is a dream for wedding photography.

Whether you're saying “I do” in the light-filled Morning Room or dancing the night away under the stars, Lanwades Hall offers timeless elegance and charm — rain or shine.

If you're planning your big day here and want a photographer who knows the venue inside out, I’d love to capture your story. Let’s make some magic together! ✨

27/05/2025

Great day in for a stunning wedding at and into the city. is stunning any day but as a newly married couple walks through its even better.
Beautiful weather gives Norwich that certain wow factor.

03/05/2025

Wednesday's wedding and gearing up for today's.
Got to love summer.

🌿 Butley Priory Elopement Package – A Tiny Piece of Perfection 💍✨

At the end of April, I had the absolute joy of photographing a small Wednesday wedding at Butley Priory in Suffolk — and honestly, I’m still swooning over how perfect the day was.

Just 16 guests, a beautifully restored 14th-century gatehouse, wisteria in full bloom, and the kind of calm, sunshine-filled day that makes my job as a wedding photographer an absolute dream. ☀️📸

The couple were quiet and a little shy — and this intimate setting let their personalities shine. We wandered the grounds, soaked up the peaceful vibes, and created some truly natural, heartfelt images. After the ceremony, we headed down to The Ramsholt Arms, a riverside pub with stunning views over the Suffolk coast, for golden hour portraits and a relaxed celebration. 🍻🌊

If you’re planning a smaller wedding with real character, Butley Priory’s midweek elopement package might be exactly what you’re looking for. It’s a little slice of English history with a whole lot of charm — and I can’t wait to be back again soon.

📖 Read the full story & see why this might be your dream venue: https://thetfordphotography.co.uk/butley-priory-elopement-package-is-a-tiny-piece-of-perfection/(opens in a new tab

The New Ramsholt Arms Butley Priory