Caitlin Wilder Photography

Caitlin Wilder Photography Wedding and Elopement photographer that specialises in natural, candid photography that captures emotion.

I will never use AI in my workflowhere’s the TLDR: I don’t care about saving time as much as I care about living and run...
15/06/2026

I will never use AI in my workflow
here’s the TLDR: I don’t care about saving time as much as I care about living and running this business by my values and AI is the antithesis of my values.

The truth is I am resisting AI. In my business and in my life. I built a business on authenticity. It is about slow, considered connection to the work I make. It’s about making art out of the love and connection between people. Art requires attention, time, nurturing, presence. Both in the session and post-production. People pay me for my brain, my eyes, my ideas. Those things can’t be replaced with an algorithm. There are images that the algorithm wouldn’t know can be something special. But I do.
Truthfully, as AI becomes a pervasive part of our lives I worry about the environmental impact, about the way we are being coached to stop thinking, stop creating; the way art is slowly being seen as commodity rather than an experience (both making and receiving art is experiential), the way art and ideas are being stolen by a machine to churn and spit back out in a more plastic, less human thing. Creating is a human necessity. Every single person is a creative being and there is an element of this new world that strives to rob us of our essential creativity.
I want everything I create - photos, painting, even my instagram captions and marketing copy to be me; to be real; to be human. To be a genuine way I am connecting with you. And for me this means there is no place in my business or life for AI.
Even if I didn’t feel this way about creation I will always feel that the environmental impacts are more important than convenience. With data centres causing major electricity and water resource strains globally I don’t want to be apart of the problem.

By the way. These lovely photos of me and my husband taking instant photos were taken by and looking at them is the antidote I always need.


F & C both told me they were awkward in front of a camera before I photographed their micro-wedding. But getting deeply ...
12/06/2026

F & C both told me they were awkward in front of a camera before I photographed their micro-wedding. But getting deeply connected photos of them was effortless for me because they are in love. You do not have to perform or pose to get images like these. You just have to relax and let your love take its shape. I’ll take care of everything else.

Soon these two will be welcoming their little babe. One of the great joys of my job is being able to see what comes next for my wonderful couples.

09/06/2026

Getting on a video call with a potential photographer for the first time can be a little intimidating. I try and keep my calls warm and informative so couples walk away feeling like they have more ideas and a clear direction on where to next so they are often easy to warm into. If you are someone who feels a little unsure about getting on a discovery call here are five things you can do that will make you feel more prepared for the chat!
1. Have a think about what you’ve got planned so far and have that information to hand (dates/ times/ other vendors)
2. Bring a pen and some paper. I often ask my couples questions they haven’t thought of yet so it’s helpful to have something to jot down on to remind you to come back to those items
3. It can help if you have a good idea of what kind of photography you’re drawn to. Spend a few minutes on the photographer’s website and choose a couple of photos to help them understand what imagery you love.
4. Write down your questions and have them ready to go! Photographers are a wealth of knowledge even for non-photography related questions. Ask them everything!
5. Remember, they are there for you, not the other way around.

It’s helpful to think of discovery calls as vibe checks. You spend a lot of your incredibly special day right next to your photographer so it’s important they are someone you feel relaxed and confident with.
My discovery calls are completely obligation free so if you were wondering if we’d be a good fit please get in touch. I’d love to chat with you!

05/06/2026

Instant photos being magical is a hill I would die on.
There is something special about the physical nature of this film. To hold the moment in your hands exactly as it was shot. Hands up - who else is in love with this type of film?

3 things I hear from my couples all the time1. “Were terrible in front of a camera”Oh me too!! I feel this one to my cor...
01/06/2026

3 things I hear from my couples all the time

1. “Were terrible in front of a camera”
Oh me too!! I feel this one to my core. It’s really hard to feel pressure to perform for a camera. This is a huge reason I work the way I do. I consider myself a candid photographer. This means there is no posing with me - I create a safe, playful environment and sit back and let love do it’s thing. I really believe the point of a photo is to hold memory and the only way to capture that is to genuinely make them. To have genuine emotion, play and connection. Every couple who have ever said to me “we aren’t good in front of the camera” created actual MAGIC when we worked together. That’s because when you’re in love you know how to be with your person.

2. “We’re feeling overwhelmed with planning!”
I hear this a lot. No matter what your day looks like planning something important is hard! There is a lot of moving parts to a wedding day (even a simple one) and finding the right vendors, the right outfits, the right celebrant, keeping family happy… it can all get a bit much. Apart of my service is being available for any wedding related questions. Even things outside of a photographer’s domain I probably know the answer (or know who has the answer!). I can recommend vendors, locations and every couple who books me gets a wedding or elopement guide to help them figure out what they need to focus on next! I know how overwhelming it is and I just want to make that a little bit easier.

3. “We just want a really relaxed day.”
Of course you do!! A day where you can sit back and enjoy the celebration of your love. It’s important that it does feel relaxed. This is the reason I ask for a video call before anyone books me. I want to chat with you and have you get to know me. It’s not just about my photography but it’s my energy, my vibe. You spend so much of a really important day with me you deserve to feel calm and comfortable around me.

28/05/2026

Hands up if you thought eloping meant you’d have some dry ceremony in a government building somewhere and it would be a complete secret from family and friends?
Turns out, the modern version of eloping is a bit more romantic than that. In Australia you can hold a legal marriage ceremony pretty much anywhere. This opens up a world of possibilities for an elopement. National parks, beaches, your own house in your pyjamas. There are no rules. I think the wonderful thing about an elopement is it’s the first layer of convention stripped away. Your ceremony can be your own - short and sweet, long and intricate, symbolic gestures, shoes on or off, witnesses you know and love or complete strangers. You can invite your intimate circle (I usually say less than 10 people and it’s an elopement - more than 10 but under 40 is a micro-wedding) or you can have one glorious day in private and celebrate in your own way. There is no right and wrong when it comes to getting married. The act of getting married is about celebrating this relationship you have been tending to - caring for and growing and making a meaningful commitment to each other to prioritise and work on it as you go. It’s important your day reflects you as individuals and as a couple. That you feel comfortable and confident. If, for you, that looks like being surrounded by the love of 100 of your closest people then that’s perfect. But if it looks like just the two of you, hiking in your favourite place, holding a ceremony where you cry while promising each other the world then that is also absolutely perfect (and I want to be there to capture the whole story for you).

20/05/2026

What if you could have your wedding day feel like this? Intimate, gentle, joyful. A ceremony by a creek with rituals and long beautiful letters to each other. Just you two - doing anything your hearts desire, beholden to no schedule, no people pleasing. Eloping isn’t for every couple but when it’s right the whole day, from the very top to the very end is pure, unquestionable magic.

✨ Availability ✨ I am strict in terms of what I take on each month. For me, the most important thing is the experience I...
11/05/2026

✨ Availability ✨
I am strict in terms of what I take on each month. For me, the most important thing is the experience I am able to give my couples. I like to get to know my couples, understand their personalities and their relationships so I can tell the story well. I want to make sure they are comfortable, heard, and get their galleries back as quickly as possible while still maintaining my high standards for each image. I am also balancing business with two small children so the numbers for each month has recently decreased to maintain the quality of experience. In one year I don’t take on more than 20 weddings/ elopements plus a handful of family sessions.

Here’s my availability for each month for the rest of the year:
May: last minute elopements or family sessions only) 2 spaces
June: 2 elopement or weddings, 2 family sessions
July: 3 elopements/ weddings, 3 family
August: 1 elopement/ wedding, 2 family
September: 1 elopement, 1 family
October: 3 elopements/ weddings, 2 families
November, 1 elopement/wedding, 2 family
December, 2 elopements/ weddings, 3 families

2027 has started booking up so make sure you get a jump start on it if you’re considering booking with me. Head to my website (link in bio) or DM me here and I can send you more information.

What an honour it is to be called “mumma”This wild, sweet, tiring, beautiful life. It’s the slowest, fastest thing I hav...
09/05/2026

What an honour it is to be called “mumma”
This wild, sweet, tiring, beautiful life. It’s the slowest, fastest thing I have ever experienced. I am so desperate to remember all the tiny moments of our regular old lives. The way my baby calls for me in the night, the way my oldest mispronounces words, the way it feels when they snuggle in close, the tiny fingers on my skin. The little curls in the hair. It’s so true - the days feel long but the years are painfully short. I am just so glad to document it - in any way I can. Thank you to for taking these rare moments of me in front of a camera and letting me edit them myself 🥰 I know my babes will be thanking you in years to come. I know they’ll want to see their mumma in some pictures. All kids do.

02/05/2026

Did you know your ceremony doesn’t have to follow any specific rules?! Finding ways to make your ceremony feel like it truly honours you as a couple is one of the things that gives the ceremony weight and importance in your memories. This is one way I can help when you book with me. I know the right questions to ask to get you thinking about what would have meaning for you and I’m always available to help you brainstorm. I’ve seen some brilliant couples break traditions so here is a list of some ideas:
-walking down the aisle together
-invite everyone to take shoes off and put on slippers
-sage or burn a candle before the ceremony to cleanse the space
-hand fasting (my favourite Scottish tradition)
-quaich
-read a poem/short story/ letter to each other/ quotes from favourite books or tv (in my ceremony we very nearly included David’s wedding speech from Schitt’s Creek)
-exchange something other than rings (my celebrant pal, Ronit, came up with a beautiful exchange for le****ns: violets)
-oathing stone (my daughter chose ours for our ceremony and suddenly a rock had meaning)
-other ways to include kids - let them do a reading, coloured glass or sand ceremony, exchange a third ring with your child (this was a particularly cute thing to witness)
-warming of the rings
-surprise witnesses
-if it’s a small ceremony you can have everyone say something they love about your love, or offer a blessing for your marriage
-invite a friend to sing
-leave personal vows until after the ceremony to make it more intimate and personal
-include water in ceremony (some collect it and keep it in a vessel for one year or pour it on your handfasting knot.
-include your pets!
-doing a candle lighting ceremony to honour people you wish were there

Things to think about might be your culture and background and significant traditions in your family. Who you want to include in the ceremony: kids? Parents? Besties? What speaks to them?
What kind of people are you? Do you like to keep it fun and silly or earnest and sentimental?
This ceremony is about you, your love, your relationship, your joy - it’s worth thinking about how you want to honour that!

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