29/08/2026
Controversial I know but….Your wedding doesn’t actually need a wedding ceremony… 👀
Hear me out.
Jo & K had already done the legal bit earlier in the week.
So for their wedding celebration at Sullington Manor, they ditched the traditional wedding-day timeline completely.
No aisle.
No vows.
No waiting for the “official” bit before the party could start.
Instead, their guests arrived and they got straight down to the important stuff:
Drinks. 🥂
Brilliant food.
Speeches.
Hugs.
A LOT of laughter.
Dancing.
And most importantly, spending the day with the people they love.
And I bloody loved it.
Because after nearly 20 years as a wedding photographer, one thing I know for sure is that … there isn’t one right way to have a wedding!!
So if you’re planning yours, here’s your permission to question the bits you think you *have* to do.
Don’t want a traditional ceremony? Don’t have one.
Hate the idea of cutting a cake? Skip it.
Don’t want hours of wedding photographs? You absolutely don’t need them.
Want to do the legal ceremony on a different day and throw one massive celebration afterwards? Go for it.
Ask yourself:
Are we doing this because we want to — or because it’s what you’re supposed to do at a wedding?
Because the best weddings I photograph aren’t necessarily the most traditional, the most expensive or the most perfectly planned.
They’re the ones that feel completely like **the people getting married.**
And Jo & K absolutely nailed that. 🤍
As a documentary wedding photographer, that’s exactly what I want to photograph — not a day built around taking pictures, but a brilliant celebration where you’re busy enjoying yourselves and I get to tell the story of it.
**Your wedding. Your people. Your rules.**
✨ SAVE this if you’re planning a relaxed, non-traditional wedding and need reminding that you really can do it your way.
📤 SHARE it with someone who’s planning a wedding and needs permission to throw out the rule book.