15/12/2025
day 15 - Change. There's been quite a lot of change in my life over the last year. Some good, some bad, some big, some small.
I got married! That's both a huge change and no change at all! Me and my husband, A-Jay, have been together for almost 15 years, so we kind of were married anyway? But now it's official, and we had an amazing day with loads of our favourite people and had the best time. So that's one big/small good change!
I got told I'm coeliac, so that's pretty rubbish. I am asymptomatic though, so that's good! I love food so much though, especially Chinese, Korean, Japanese and Filipino food, which all generally has a lot of gluten in it. So I'm mourning the loss of being able to eat at some of my favourite places, whilst also embracing trying to make things at home using gluten free versions of things like soy sauce and gochujang. And so far so good for the most part! I just hate having to think about where I'll eat. In my adult life, I've tried to stay away from the lure of diet culture and thinking too much about what I eat (aside from "does it taste good?") so I kind of resent that part.
I got made redundant from a photography job last year and have been trying to find something steady since then. It's been pretty rough being in temp work for a while and then out of work since May. The job market is an absolute sh*tshow at the moment, and so many people are applying for each job! But I have now found something (fingers crossed), so that's a good change!
I've also been trying to re-start this whole photography malarkey, which - as a perfectionist - has also had it's ups and downs and is taking waaaaay longer than I anticipated. I've been trying to figure out my website since March (?!) and it's still not ready to go...if anyone knows a decent web designer or someone who can do an audit of a website then please let me know any recommendations! I'm kind of resigned to the fact that I'm obviously not able to do it myself haha.
So yeah....lots of change. But I've had the best day ever, spent loads of time seeing friends, hung out with my family more. So overall, it's been a pretty good year! How are you all doing?!