27/03/2017
"I’ve always wanted to immigrate here to the UK. But It’s a big change. I miss my friends and my family back home in Johannesburg.
If you think of the future, having kids and stuff, South Africa is quite a tough one to go back to. Because there is quite a lot of uncertainty. I mean I am not generally a pessimist but if you think about schooling it’s very expensive, crime and all that.
I think the biggest shock for me was the lifestyle change. Things that come to you so easily in comparison to SA. You feel sometimes removed from what is really going on outside of the UK. When I am back home, you see something every day, you see people starving, you just get so much more perspective on different life experiences. While here you often get stuck in a routine
I do think that people will be very shocked to come to a country like South Africa. For example, when I tell people about the security breaches. If you drive at night, you need to look around you, you cannot stop at the stop sign because you are a target for ‘carjackers’, so you need to slow up to the stop street then go straight away.
If you’re young girl, you are more vulnerable. we don't walk anywhere at night, even during the day, you only go to some areas. When you are driving to your house, there is always a big risk to have people following you, to catch you and steal your car. You constantly have to be careful.
Luckily nothing serious has happened to me yet. Once someone tried to steal my bag once on a beach, but I forced him off.
My brother got held up at gunpoint once. I was at a restaurant quite recently, where a group of robbers came into the mall and held up a jewellery store beside us. Everyone ran to the kitchen to hide from these robbers. After 20mins we all presumed that it was okay, and we just sat back to finish our breakfast... because it didn’t seem like a big deal for us, it was just common place."