03/16/2026
Those who know me well , know how much I love celebrating my birthday. Not just mine — all birthdays, they’ve always been one of my favourite celebrations.
I had imagined (& planned) my 40th a little differently.
Maybe Japan.
Maybe Spain.
A trip, a milestone, a celebration,with my hubby & kids.
Instead, life brought me back to Tirana unexpectedly, after my father was hospitalized.
So this year I spent my birthday here — with my sisters and my mother, in my hometown . And here in Albania, March 14 is Summer Day, a celebration of renewal, light, and the arrival of a new season.
Sometimes I feel like life placed me here for a reason — almost like being gently guided back to my roots.
Sunshine.
My sisters.
My mother
My father
And at the same time, the quiet pull of the people waiting for me at home — my husband and my children — who I miss deeply and who need me too.
These past weeks have been a reminder that love stretches across places and responsibilities, and sometimes our hearts are asked to hold more than one place at once.
Since February ,my days have been divided between life outside and visits to the hospital.
And this time has taught me lessons about life and shaped me in ways I could probably write a whole book about.
Live the present.
Protect your peace.
Hold your loved ones close.
And above all — be grateful.
Because even in this uncertain times, I’ve seen people show up for me in the most beautiful ways.
I feel incredibly lucky to have such amazing friends and family,
the most beautiful children and the most supportive partner
This birthday looked different than I imagined, but it also looks like love, family, and gratitude 🤍
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