01/09/2026
I've been sharing the archives of photographs I've taken over the years from workshops lately, because I've barely, if ever, shared them. Mainly cause I felt like they were unrealistic for the wedding day and set clients up for weird/unrealistic expectations.
But I was so proud of the work, because I learned so much, and it was good practice. Or it really was beautiful, but I could not bring myself to overshare because of the expectation of a wedding day.
Why? Most people are not that comfortable in front of a camera. So, as a photographer, making someone hold the same-ish pose while I get six different angles of it... just to "experiment"... feels like a massive waste of time on a wedding day. Like, no one has multiple hours to goof around for a couple's shoot.
And even if you do, all your loved ones are in one location for you to enjoy, so that's more important.
You enjoying your wedding day is way more critical than a styled shoot. If you want that look, you can always model, volunteer, and/or book a styled wedding shoot for yourself on a lower-stress day. Or make sure that you carve out an hour or more on the wedding day (which I have had couples do).
Remember, social media ain't always realistic.
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