06/15/2026
—National Indigenous History Month
Decolonizing in real time, writing my book, sifting through grief as our most beloved sister passed after battling cancer for 32 months, staring at walls & hearing her in my head, & cloud watching. I’m not trolling for sympathy but life’s a s**t sometimes. We battled aggressively against racism, & feeling apathetic about nothing and everything in general. Some lessons have been gold too because we’re survivors and warriors. We’re built to fight though, and talk s**t when people tell us we don’t belong. We kicked some people to the curb to, walking in peace means no drama lama, or listening to hate which has been easy to walk away from, and their silence is gold. Silence can be a friend. Saying anything negative is a repetitive loop, don’t get caught in that trap. We’re united about the latter. Dancing is good after a fall like when you lose your sister to insidious cancer, or when the people who are supposed to love you don’t talk; kinship laws say family isn’t about biology though as we pick up family everywhere, and it’s beautiful. If you see us walking, talking, thinking, dancing, standing or running through the rain, we’re the same so come say hello. And remember, whatever blessing that arrives at your home fire has the right address. 🔥