08/18/2026
How do you find the sweet spot between “we want beautiful wedding photos”, and “we don’t want it to feel like a day long photoshoot 😅”?
I’m glad you asked 😏
When every single detail is planned around the camera, when the inspo board consumes your mind (understandably so btw), it’s easy to accidently spend your day worrying about if it’s meeting the vision rather and putting on a performance rather than soaking in the happiest day of your life 🥹
Don’t get me wrong, your Pinterest inspo is NOT going in the garbage. Here’s my tips on how to find the balance I love:
1. Build in intentional photo time. Give your photographer enough time to create beautiful work without having to steal moments from the rest of your day. Getting ready, portraits, family photos, golden hour… you want breathing room for these. They should help you plan out the timing needed!
2. Then let the rest belong to you. Eat your dinner. Talk to your people. Get your dress dirty. Hug your grandma. Dance badly. Wander away from the crowd for five minutes. Let things happen that were never on the shot list. This is where your day comes alive and becomes you. 🥹
3. Choose a photographer who knows when to step in, but also when to step back. You shouldn’t feel like you’re performing for a camera all day. A documentary-inspired photographer should be able to guide you when guidance is helpful, then take a step back and let your day happen. 🥰
The goal isn’t to have a perfectly documented day. But to have a day that was so good, so real and so you that the photographs bring you right back to it. 🤎
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