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02/12/2024

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02/12/2024

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02/12/2024

Wtf dis d onli feed..watchdis den

WHAT WAS THE LAST STRAW FOR YOU? For me, it was finding out that my ex had run up $84k in debts without me knowing about it, and was having an affair...then, there was staying out after work until after midnight night after night, and ignoring me and the kids. That was it for me. NO MORE! What was it for you?

If you'd like to join a well-moderated group for survivors... We have a private and confidential group as well, called “Freedom From Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse-the Group” where you can get support from other survivors. If you want to join, just BE SURE TO ANSWER THE MEMBERSHIP QUESTIONS AND AGREE TO THE RULES, or we'll be unable to accept your request for membership... Link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/191053664971647

02/12/2024

02/12/2024

If you'd like to join a well-moderated group for survivors... We have a private and confidential group as well, called “Freedom From Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse-the Group” where you can get support from other survivors. If you want to join, just BE SURE TO ANSWER THE MEMBERSHIP QUESTIONS AND AGREE TO THE RULES, or we'll be unable to accept your request for membership.. Link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/191053664971647

02/12/2024

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02/12/2024

WHEN THE NARCISSIST CLAIMS, " I'M NOT ABUSIVE. I NEVER HIT YOU". A narcissist will often claim that they weren't abusive because their abuse was not like someone else's abuse. If they abuse you in a different way, then it's not abuse to the narc, or to clueless people who don't understand narc abuse because they've never experienced it.
So, they aren't a spouse be**er, exactly. They beat you to a pulp with words. Women aren't abusers, right? Except they are. It's not sexual abuse because you were their spouse or partner. It wasn't financial abuse because it was "our" money. It's not abuse because I was nice at times...remember?
Yet, narcissistic abusers of all stripes employ the same tactics and types of excuses and inflict misery on everyone they can.
To understand narcissistic abuse it's necessary to look at the relationship as a whole, its power structure, its history, and the effect it had on you and your kids. Overall, for instance, there were many kinds of abuse, but perhaps not every kind. There were some "good times" but, overall, it was dreadful.
Maybe there was a nice vacation. But there were also relentlessly degrading remarks, vicious name-calling, and absurd jealousy. Maybe the narcissist said they loved you, but you were constantly walking on eggshells.
A relationship with a narcissist is filled with abusive and confusing interactions that cause you overwhelming pain. That's the narcissist slapping you....not with their hand, but with their words, and the pain of that kind of abuse lasts far longer than bruises.

02/12/2024

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THE REALLY IMPORTANT LESSON ABOUT NARCISSISTIC ABUSE...what the narc said and did says NOTHING about you, despite all the abuse and horrible things they said. NOTHING.
But the fact that they said it about a good, caring, loving person says VOLUMES ABOUT THEM.

02/12/2024

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I "checkmated" the narcissist's smear campaign. How? The narc smeared me to all our 'friends", our congregation, and we lived in a small town, so it got around. I couldn't convince everyone and trying was a waste of time.
So, I moved. Not very far, but still, everyone I met and befriended only knew the real me, not the lies my ex told. I went to a different church. In time, I had all new friends and a new life. I met and, in time, married my now spouse.
So, the smears didn't affect me, but my ex kept up the smear campaign in court, but in time, that had to end as well. I rode it out. I "checkmated" my ex's smear campaign simply by having friends that knew only me, not her. I didn't discuss her, our divorce, our former marriage...none of it. So, her smears only got heard by people she knew.
In time, they got tired of hearing it. The smears got more and more exaggerated, so people began to doubt them. They turned against her without my intervention. So, she moved. It was over.
A new life...that was how I checkmated my ex's smears.

If you'd like to join a well-moderated group for survivors... We have a private and confidential group as well, called “Freedom From Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse-the Group” where you can get support from other survivors. If you want to join, just BE SURE TO ANSWER THE MEMBERSHIP QUESTIONS AND AGREE TO THE RULES, or we'll be unable to accept your request for membership.. Link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/191053664971647