21/05/2021
"Situations Are Only Temporary "
Hi everyone my encouraging words for you all is this...Things are only Temporary...let that sink in...if you're going through problems right now realise this ,...it's only temporary. Eventually those things will pass just as storms do...they don't last long so why should it matter?
Maybe you've had a fight with your spouse or you got fired from your job...you think your life is over...well guess what it doesn't have to be...it's up to you and you alone to change your thought pattern, to have a game plan..where to go after this has happened...now I'm not saying it's not ok to feel upset as that's a human emotion but don't hang onto it it'll only eat you up inside...it's only temporary...you can change the way you think, others can't...if you're not happy with something then do something about it...be proactive.
You all have choices in life, reacting to situations. You don't have to be liked by everyone either . It's taken myself a long time to come to this self realisation and I've been seeing a Physcologist...I'm happy to admit that sh*t..why? Because I needed help .
I needed healing from previous relationships and struggles I've had in the past. I used to think I was a failure...Now I don't ...if I stuff up it's not the end of the world and it's through mistakes that you learn from them and it also helps you grow , my journey hasn't stopped there, even though the physcologist said I don't need him anymore , as he can see a huge change in me as opposed to when I first met him if I slip up I'll see him again there's no shame in seeking help if you need it.
But at this point in time I'm starting to see life in a different light and am now making decisions for myself instead of relying on others .If it wasn't for my lovely woman I have right now that encouraged me to do so, in all honesty I wouldn't have done it... things are only temporary, problems will pass if you let them but that choice is up to you to allow that....