16/06/2026
Grateful children tend to grow into happier adults.
Research has linked gratitude with stronger relationships, better mental wellbeing, greater resilience, higher career success, and even longer life expectancy.
Some simple ways to teach gratitude:
🌱 Model it yourself
Let them hear you say:
• “I’m grateful for this beautiful day.”
• “Wasn’t that kind of Grandma?”
🌱 Do “3 good things” before bed
Ask:
• What made you smile today?
• Who helped you today?
• What are you thankful for today?
🌱 Teach them to notice people
Instead of “Say thank you,” try:
• “What did that person do for you?”
• “How do you think they feel when you thank them?”
🌱 Involve them in giving
• Draw a card for a friend
• Help donate toys
• Bake something for a neighbour
🌱 Celebrate effort, not just outcomes
• “Wasn’t it nice that Dad took the time to help?”
• “Your teacher worked hard to organise that.”
🌱 Turn complaints into perspective
Not by dismissing feelings, but by asking:
• “What’s one good thing about this situation?”
A skill I practice with my children every night is sharing three things we’re grateful for before bed. The more we train our brains to look for the good, the more good we notice. ✨