15/09/2025
15 SEPT 2025.
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// HOLDING SPACE //
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,
Cancer is terrifying, but it also gives you something rare: time.
Time to pause and breathe.
Time to reflect and reconnect.
Time to prepare.
It gives you space to tell the people you love that you love them, to face your fears, and to search for meaning in the chaos.
Over the years, I’ve learned that we all face life’s challenges in our own way. I’ve always needed to fall hard, to feel the full weight of the impact, before I can rise again. I have to rebuild my mental foundation before I can start rebuilding my life. These past few days have been that fall. But I feel myself slowly standing, lifted by the love and encouragement surrounding me.
This time feels different. Last time, I charged into cancer like a warrior, driven by motivational videos, fierce determination, and the belief that I could outfight it. That worked for me then, but not now. Now I long for something deeper.
I’m seeking peace. I’m learning to meditate, to breathe, to quiet my thoughts. I’ve come to see that the goal of life is not to chase endless happiness, because where there is happiness, sadness follows. The true goal is peace. And that is where my heart rests now.
So I’ll walk this path with quiet gratitude.
Not fighting with rage or adrenaline, but living with open hands and a full heart. I want to embrace life, love deeply, be fully present in every moment, and cherish each breath I take.
Just as the One Bunbury book was meant to be.
A book that holds space.
A book of few words.
A space to breathe.
A title that invites stillness.
A pause between each thought,
so there is room to feel.
Room to take it in.
No titles or labels.
No need for comparison.
Only connection.
This is for those who may not have time to read every story,
but want the heart of it.
For those who see a single sentence
and imagine a thousand possibilities.
It is here to quiet the noise,
to bring clarity,
to offer a soft place
to pause,
to breathe,
to reflect.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart to all the incredible people who have purchased extra books to support me on this new journey. You know who you are, and I am grateful a hundred times over.
With gratitude,
Ben Yew / 15 Sept 2025
Dreamer of the One Bunbury Project
www.onebunbury.com.au/shop