30/05/2026
I almost didn't take my kids anywhere today.
There was a free event on that I knew they would've loved.
But I was still in my pyjamas. The house was a mess. The kids were fighting. And honestly, I couldn't get myself off the couch.
Lately, most days have felt loud, repetitive, and exhausting.
As I sat there doom scrolling, procrastinating, I came across a video of a young, single woman talking about carpe diem. Seize the day.
Part of me thought, that's easy when you only have yourself to think about.
But another part of me wondered if I've started confusing difficult circumstances with permission to avoid things altogether.
Have I become a victim of my circumstances, or just comfortable using them as an excuse?
It's a confronting thought.
Especially because I photograph so many families and preserve their beautiful memories.
Yet if I'm honest, I've been avoiding making memories with my own family lately.
It feels too hard to leave the house. Too exhausting to deal with public tantrums. Too expensive. Too much effort.
But today I put my phone down.
I got myself dressed while the boys played outside.
And we left.
We were only out for an hour and a half.
But we got temporary tattoos, bounced on a jumping castle, ate ice cream, rode a miniature train, collected a balloon friend, and came home with a few extra treats we probably didn't need.
Did I avoid spending money?
No.
Did the kids have fun and make memories?
I really hope so.
And maybe that's the thing.
Most of us aren't living these perfectly curated lives we see online.
Most of us are tired. Overwhelmed. Behind on the washing. Wondering if we're doing enough.
But sometimes making memories doesn't look like some magical family adventure.
Sometimes it just looks like getting off the couch and showing up anyway. 🤍