12/12/2025
A LETTER- MOTHER TO MOTHER 🩷
I just got this message from Shannon, Shevy’s mum, about this photo and it stopped me in my tracks.
“This photo is so beautiful but makes me incredibly sad… like she’s walking away from babyhood. I’m grieving her not being the baby for much longer.”
My gosh did it give me all the feels.
It took me right back to when I was pregnant with Chase, sitting in that messy swirl of emotions only a mum can really understand. I remember wondering how on earth I’d love another baby the way I loved my first born, Ryker. Whether I’d have enough of me to go around. Ryker was only 17 months when Chase arrived, still very much a baby himself.
I had guilt. I had sadness about how quickly he was growing up. I had pride. I had fear. I had all of it tangled together. This parenting gig is such a roller coaster, equal parts heartache, hard work, and absolute magic.
And now, looking back, I can see how lucky we are. How lucky Ryker is to have a little brother to grow up with, his built in mate for life. And that’s exactly what Shevy will have too. It’s the ultimate gift but that doesn’t make the feelings any easier in the moment.
Like I said to Shannon it’s real. It’s a grief. It’s the ache of watching your baby become the big kid. And it’s okay to feel every bit of it.
But I promise you’re walking toward something so unbelievably special.
Giving her a sister and watching them grow side by side is a gift for both of you. And one day you’ll look back and realise this wasn’t an ending at all, it was the beginning of something beautiful. 💛