04/09/2026
Here’s something that might surprise you about me…
I don’t believe your wedding day should be the best day of your lives!
Is it an important milestone in your relationship worthy of celebrating? 100%.
It’s also a hell of a lot of pressure to put on yourselves, and your expectations of the day. The pressure that it should be perfect (sorry, perfection doesn’t exist), that you’re going to feel a certain way, or that everything turns out how you imagined it. All of this pressure often leads to so much extra stress, and takes you away from actually being present when the day arrives.
Yes, your wedding day might be one of the best days of your lives SO FAR, but why would you want to peak so early, when you’ve just promised each other a lifetime?
We got married in 2014, and just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary. Our wedding day was great, but it was far from the best day of our lives. Getting married was awesome, but it was just the start. We've been on so many incredible, life-changing adventures together that I don't think I could even pick a single day.
Here's a goofy picture of us at the top of a mountain that we climbed on our anniversary :-)