02/11/2026
Maybe I'm being a bit melodramatic, but I think a small piece of me dies every time I receive an enquiry that's so obviously written by ChatGPT (or any other AI).
I chose to do this job because I love the deeply human experience of connecting with people and helping them enjoy one of the most emotionally significant moments in their lives.
So when that first contact comes from a soulless chatbot, it hurts.
Yes, I understand we live busy lives, but for something as important as your wedding or proposal, isn't taking the time to connect with the human on the other end of your enquiry important? After all, that human is possibly going to play a very significant role in one of the most important milestones in your life.
p.s. No shame to folks who need to use it for things like translation, if you're communicating in a language that isn't your first language. It's the emails that sound like a clinical analysis of my website's keywords, some generic phrases about why my work stood out to you, and endless bullet points about what you're looking for. To me, that just comes across that you don't really care...
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