28/05/2026
Capitalism wants you to believe that spending more means you value your wedding day (and therefore your relationship) more.
It doesn't.
Your partner will be speechless when they see you, whether you spent thousands on your outfit or you found a bargain buy on eBay.
The experience of hiking to a stunning viewpoint to exchange your vows is the same, whether you're wearing brand new, matching backpacks, or the ones you've used and loved for years.
The joy of hiking up a mountain with a cake and trying to balance it on a rock to cut it is the same whether it's a custom-made cake or a last-minute supermarket purchase.
Watching your first sunrise together as a married couple isn't any more beautiful if you're wearing brand new down jackets.
The most precious gift you can give yourselves for your wedding day is presence.