King Mović

10/10/2024

04/10/2023

🚨 Letishisa Umndeni 🚨

I’m in desperate need of advise from the Lift Off family. Umyeni wami ukulelise uAunty osizayo and ngizulelwa ikhanda.

My husband and I have been married for 12 years and sathola izingane singakashadi, zona sezina 16 and 18. Three years ago ngathola umsebenzi ongihambisayo and I’m hardly ekhaya. Ziyaphela izinyanga ezimbili ngingabuyanga ekhaya and that kills me. Umyeni wami had told me countless times to quit this job and uzosinakekela, but ngyanqaba because I’m living my dream and I’ve worded so hard to be where I am namhlanje.

Kulonyaka I’ve been feeling like a stranger emzini wami, ngisho izingane ziyabanda towards me. I took leave and booked us a vacation, we didn’t even have the deed nomyeni, kwakungathi uyanginyanya.

Recently I’ve been told by both families to come back ngoba kunesimo. I came back as soon as I could, which was like a month after they had requested. Little did I know ukuthi ngibuyela ibhomu, to be told by the families ukuthi sekunesimo sokuthi umyeni wami usegcwalise amathambo esiswini sikaAunty engimuqashile.

To top this off, my 18 year old said “kodwa nawe Mah ubulindeleni ngoba you are never around.” I could not believe my ears, zavele zazehlela izinyembezi. Now nasi isimo engibhekene naso, umyeni umithise uAunty which everyone loves dearly and bayamuvikela bathi she was there when I wasn’t.

Ngibhekana kanjani nesimo esikanje while trying to save my family? Kindly assist.

17/07/2023

It doesn't matter how much you love that person but when it's her/his time to go let it be don't force let it go kusesemnandzi