11/03/2026
⭐️ National Family Caregivers Month Spotlight ⭐️
For six years, Jacquelyn (Mom Of My Mom) cared for both her mother and grandmother, navigating the challenges of dementia as an only child and solo caregiver. In her own words, she shares the memories, lessons, and strength that shaped her caregiving journey.
Q: Tell us a little about yourself, and who you care for!
A: I cared for my mother and grandmother, both with dementia, for six years as an only child and solo caregiver.
Q: What's a favorite memory of you and your loved one?
A: My mom once pointed to a photo of herself holding me as a baby and called me her mommy. Knowing she felt safe and cared for inspired the name “Mom of My Mom.”
Q: What's something your loved one taught you that you still use today?
A: My mother taught me that even a mustard seed of faith can help me achieve my goals. With time, that faith can grow.
Q: What's something your loved one says or does that is 100% them?
A: My mom snapped along to music and did a little shoulder shimmy when she enjoyed her food. Even when nonverbal, that was her sign of approval.
Q: What's something about caregiving that no one would guess from the outside?
A: Caregivers are often in a constant state of mourning. Even when we're not crying, we still yearn for what was.
Q: What's a skill or strength you have from caregiving that you didn't have a few years ago?
A: I've learned to pivot when plans change. Dementia brings shifting needs and unexpected moments, so I've become better at adapting.
Q: What advice would you give someone who is just starting their caregiving journey?
A: Find your people. Other caregivers understand what you're experiencing in a way others may not. You'll find support among those who truly get it.
Thank you, Jacquelyn, for sharing your story with us!
