04/01/2022
“Home Away from Home is a Ripon College program that links international students with host parents in Ripon. It was restarted in 2008, and my wife, Christal, and I were among the first group of host parents to sign up. The students live on campus and we become surrogate parents. Since 2008, we have hosted seven young women, usually two at a time, from Nepal, Burma, China and Nigeria.
“The students stick with the same host family all four years at Ripon, so we really get to know them and they become part of our family. COVID limited our contacts, but typically we would take the girls out to supper about twice a month. We would take them shopping, to movies, and to museums and events. I think the most important thing we offer is emotional support. If they need a ‘parent’ to talk to, if they are in an activity or event at the College, or if they just need a quiet place away from the campus, we can be there for them.
“When they leave Ripon, most of them stay in touch with us. Two of them who went on to graduate school in the U.S. have stayed in close touch, and they still call us their ‘second family.’ Our own two daughters, who have moved away from Ripon, kid us that, as empty-nesters, we keep ‘collecting daughters.’
“The students get homesick. A few of the young women we’ve hosted were away from their homes for two or three years while they were here. Christal and I have included them in Christmas and Thanksgiving dinners, we’ve taken them on trips over breaks, and our home is open to them any time. We hope that has helped a little bit to ease their homesickness.
“Each time we ‘adopt’ a new student, we write to her parents to introduce ourselves. And the parents have always told us how grateful they are that their daughter has a caring family nearby. We understand that. One of our daughters, Robin, spent a semester in Cairo, Egypt. Through friends, we made contact with an Egyptian family. They met Robin at the airport, helped her get settled at the university, and stayed in touch with her while she was there. It is hard to describe how much better that made us feel. And it feels very good to pay it forward to other parents.
“Of course, the best part about being host parents is getting to know these young women who come from very different cultures and places. We have dear friends among our past and present international ‘daughters’ — and their parents. We have gotten to know and care for other international students at Ripon College — they often arrived at our door in a bunch. And what we have gained from the experience far, far outweighs the time and effort we put into it. It has been immensely rewarding and a whole lot of fun.”
David Sakrison
Adjunct Instructor of Business Management
Ripon, Wisconsin
Pictured are David and Christal Sakrison with Sneha Thapa ’12 at her graduation. Sneha came to Ripon from Katmandu, Nepal.