05/09/2026
When Love Heals the Broken Hearted
“My photographer canceled!!! Are you available?”
Not exactly the dream way to be asked to cover an event
But sometimes, that’s exactly how a story finds you
The irony is that while I thought I was doing my friend Lauren Costabile a favor, it turns out she was doing one for me
I remember when Lauren founded Hearts of Joy International
Her mission, to help provide life-saving heart surgery for children with Down syndrome, many of whom are born with congenital heart defects and live in places where specialized care’s not always available
Her work has taken her to places like Uganda, the Philippines, and India, where poverty, limited medical access, and cultural stigma can make life even more fragile for children with disabilities
But at this year’s gala, one of the children helped through that mission wasn’t born a continent away
She was born in New York City
Her name is Violet
Violet and her mother came to know Lauren and Christiana, a cardiac nurse and member of Hearts of Joy, through none other than the Sisters of Life
“I’d like to thank the Sisters of Life…”
were the first words Violet’s mother spoke when she took the stage
She spoke about learning of Violet’s diagnosis while pregnant
She spoke about fear, uncertainty, doctor’s appointments, surgery, and the people who walked with her when she didn’t know what the road ahead would hold
And there was Violet
The little girl with a once-broken heart, beneath the lights while her mother gave thanks through tears
The room was silent, until it erupted in earsplitting applause
This is what the culture of life looks like
It looks like a Sister accompanying a mom on doctors visits
A young woman serving God by serving others
Donors making surgery possible
And a little girl named Violet at the center of it all…reminding everyone that today she breathes
and smiles…
because of them
Every life is sacred
And sometimes that truth does not arrive as an argument
Sometimes it arrives as a little girl beneath the lights
with a mended heart
and a whole room rising to its feet