05/28/2026
What was it like growing up in a Latino Asian household?
So my parents are divorced. I lived with my mom most of the time, but I would always see my dad since he also lives 5 minutes away in Bayside. They got divorced when I was 4, 5.
People always assumed I was Latina. That was kind of a give or take. Maybe they’ll get the country wrong, but that’s about it. I was definitely a “no sabo” kid. I was very stubborn about learning any kind of language. I did not see the purpose in it, so I would never really speak Chinese to my grandparents. I would never answer my mom back in Spanish. It wasn’t until I was older and I realized how bad my Spanish was that I actually put effort into speaking it and having it be a part of my daily interactions with my mom.
I used to do Spanish singing shows growing up, which is ironic because I didn’t really speak that much. I did shows called “La Voz Kids” and “La Banda”. And it’s crazy because my Spanish was so bad. My mom would make it a thing where she would ignore me unless I answered her back in Spanish. Eventually it stuck to me more.
It was cool because, it sucks to say, it was always a lot easier to immerse myself in my Latino culture. On the surface, it was what people picked up on very fast.
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How different were your interactions with your family back in China to the times that you went to Ecuador?
The music’s definitely different. When I celebrate with my Chinese side of the family, there’s no music. It’s crazy to think. It’s just like a lot of food and talking. But with my Ecuadorian family, it’s the complete opposite. The food has to be somewhere else, because you have to make room to be able to dance and party. It’s very different in the way that we celebrate things.
Interaction wise, both are just very respectful and have a sense of filial piety. You respect your elders no matter what. Both cultures are very family oriented, with big gatherings. Nothing is ever hollow. Both great food.
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