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Celebrating   by debuting BBA’S SELF-DEFINING, WORLD-WEAVING TENETS OF EMPOWERMENT. AKA… My manifesto! I’m asked all the...
03/08/2025

Celebrating by debuting BBA’S SELF-DEFINING, WORLD-WEAVING TENETS OF EMPOWERMENT. AKA… My manifesto!

I’m asked all the time, “Why bo***ir”? Great Q, and while maybe the answer “because I love it” might suffice, I wanted to sit with it. For real, like… Why bo***ir? ✨Crosses legs, lights a candle, massages third eye✨: What is my intention with my photography, my business, and the impact I want to have on my clients? What mark am I trying to leave?

So I wrote a manifesto. I know, how Karl Marx of me. I poured over each tenet as I really FELT into the artist I want to be, the people I want to serve, and the world I want to make. This is Bo***ir by Afton Utopia, baby. Each tenet comes from the marrow of my bones. It’s my point of view on the world. And it’s why I shoot bo***ir.

On the walk to defining my POV in manifesto form, a sweet accident stuck to the bottom of my shoe. Not once, in any of the drafts, did I use the word “empowerment”. This was not intentional - I wasn’t consciously avoiding the word. In truth, I have always felt the word to be so 🤢🤷‍♀️🙃😬 empty? Blech-y? Silly? No tea no shade, but one will see no shortage of the word “empowering” on any given bo***ir website and I’ve always scratched my head over what anyone meant by it. What does it even mean?! Empower who? And how? And why? It had always felt like a word salad platitude to me, even when I’d force myself to use it, so I’d just leave it in the drafts collecting dust…

…until I wrote this baby. Nearing its completion, an epiphany bopped me on the head. In the last editing stage, I sat back, eyes wide, pearls clutched- realizing THIS (points aggressively to manifesto) is what “empowerment” means to me. THIS is how I empower myself, my clients, and all women and femmes present and future. THIS is how I DEFINE empowerment! Holy s**t!! I could kiss myself on the mouth.

So here you have it, hotties. My world-weaving, self-defining tenets of (wait for it)… EMPOWERMENT 👊💥

Look for a blog post to come. I’ll also be unpacking each tenet here on IG, so follow along for all the juicy ways you can weave this world with me. We’ll be happier and hotter for it! ***ir

HAPPY PISCES SEASON, BABY!Some visual spells for you to spice up these boundless waters 🐟 and remember, as the angler fi...
02/19/2025

HAPPY PISCES SEASON, BABY!

Some visual spells for you to spice up these boundless waters 🐟 and remember, as the angler fish taught us, you’re never so far deep you can’t make your way toward the light!

🪞🔦🎏😶‍🌫️👣🫂🧜🏻🐋🪼🐚🕳️🩵🔱🆓

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Hope you’re spending this Valentine’s Day discovering how many licks it takes to get to the center of the lollipop 👅💌💐🪐🪞...
02/14/2025

Hope you’re spending this Valentine’s Day discovering how many licks it takes to get to the center of the lollipop 👅💌💐

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HOW I HOPE LAST NIGHT’S FULL MOON IN LEO FOUND YOU ❤️‍🔥🪐🪞💫💋   ***irbyafton  ***ir  ***ir
02/13/2025

HOW I HOPE LAST NIGHT’S FULL MOON IN LEO FOUND YOU ❤️‍🔥

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“I’m dangerous, I like myself so much” - Brenè Brown 🤩🪐🪞💫💋 ***irbyafton  ***ir  ***ir  ***irphotographer
02/08/2025

“I’m dangerous, I like myself so much” - Brenè Brown 🤩

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Mission accomplished 💌🔥 ***irbyafton  ***ir  ***ir  ***irphotographer
02/05/2025

Mission accomplished 💌🔥

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HI LOVERS! New year, new reintroduction 💋For new friends and followers, I thought I’d re-introduce myself and specifical...
01/29/2025

HI LOVERS!
New year, new reintroduction 💋

For new friends and followers, I thought I’d re-introduce myself and specifically share the 🪞why🪞 behind my bo***ir photography crusade.

Throughout high school and college, I always had a camera in my hand. I loved lugging my DSLR everywhere I went, from birthday parties to swing dancing nights with my friends. In college, as a theatre major, I was the go-to headshot gal as well as my program body’s historian. There were times you couldn’t convince me my camera wasn’t gorilla glued to my hand. It was just an unquestioned extension of who I was and what I did- until I moved to NYC in 2016.

For reasons warranting an entire blog post, I put the camera down, disillusioned with the trials of moving to a new city and convinced I needed “to focus on my acting career”.

Then, COVID hit. As many can relate, I was suddenly burdened with a lot of free time. I dusted off my DSLR and started asking friends if they wanted to take pictures. I met people all around the city to try on my photography legs and see if they still fit. I had plans with a friend to do a little shoot when she said, what about bo***ir? I said, …what is bo***ir?

And well… it’s a rabbit hole I never came out of.

I practiced on myself (first pic!) and some brave friends, and the last pic is one from my very first paying bo***ir shoot in 2021.

And every day since, I’m finding new answers to “Why bo***ir?”

Then, it was: holy s**t this is fun. This is cool. I’ve been taking nudes of myself since before it was probably legal, why wouldn’t I take nudes of others?!

And it still is that. I’m ALWAYS an advocate for taking nudes!

But I’m tickled and delighted that my return to shooting folks in their skivvies continues to evolve. Bo***ir is brave. Bo***ir is political. Bo***ir is history. Bo***ir is the best kind of selfish. Bo***ir is resistance. Bo***ir is sensual practice. Bo***ir is liberation. Bo***ir makes you stronger, hotter, braver, and more confident. Bo***ir is taking up space. Bo***ir is a mirror. Bo***ir is art. I fu***ng love bo***ir.

This space honors me and it’s one I’ll continue to show up in. I hope you join me.
Xoxo, Afton
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Hey hotties,If this is a hard week for you, you’re not alone. For me, it’s been tough to process the inauguration, the s...
01/21/2025

Hey hotties,
If this is a hard week for you, you’re not alone. For me, it’s been tough to process the inauguration, the spooky things happening with TikTok, and the continuing devastation, loss, tragedy, and displacement happening on the west coast. I don’t always have the right words, but right now, what I can share is hope. I’m with you this week and every week. If you can, hug someone you love a little longer today. If you can’t, send a text to someone you love and tell them you’re thinking of them 🪐🪞💫💋

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With 2024 in the rearview, we look forward to 2025 and alllll that’s IN VOGUE and all that goes IN THE COMPOST! This yea...
01/18/2025

With 2024 in the rearview, we look forward to 2025 and alllll that’s IN VOGUE and all that goes IN THE COMPOST!

This year is going to rock, y’all. It’s the year of designing our life with intention, reaching toward the far corners of what we’re capable of, and doing the scary s**t- not because we’re fearless, but because being scared and doing it anyway is really hot.

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Happy   from your Head Baddie in Charge at Bo***ir by Afton! To celebrate, I’m here to remind you that my BLACK FRIDAYxB...
11/30/2024

Happy from your Head Baddie in Charge at Bo***ir by Afton! To celebrate, I’m here to remind you that my BLACK FRIDAYxBIRTHDAY sale is still going on: between now and my birthday, your session fee is waived and you enjoy a free add-on 🎞️

See you on the sheets 💋

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